Actually, it is an interesting question for those of us not DAed or Dfed.
I haven't been to a meeting in nearly 5 years, so I cannot be classified as an active JW. What worries me, as for family reasons I don't want to get disfellowshipped, is how the local congregation views me.
Personally, I do not accept that I am under the still under the 'authority' of the congregation. Also, I have next to no contact with any members of the congregation other than my wife but because I do occasionally bump into members of the congregation at the shops etc, I am sure that if I did something like start attending church regularly, they would be quick to disfellowship me.
Eyeslice (on the bye line so not totally free)