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  Is it possible for a child to be exposed to JWism and not be damaged by it?

  by Mickey mouse in

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  what do you think?

  were you raised as a jw and feel you suffered no ill effects?

  or do you feel it had a negative impact on your life?.

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  eyeslice

  The question is; and not be damaged by it?

  A lot of us here grew up as JWs and have even raised kids as JWs. Different people have different circumstances but overall I don't feel damaged by it.

  And, my kids? Yes, they grew up without Xmas and birthdays but they all seem fine, even though all of them have left the 'truth'. I have lots of great memories of my childhood and my kids childhood many of them to do with being a JW; volunteering at assemblies, working on KH projects, etc.

  When my youngest son decided to stop accompanying his mother to the meeting I had a chat with him and asked not to be bitter about growing up a JW and not to become anti-Witness as such. We were all mislead by the Society but many of us have lots of positives too.

  To be balanced though, I have to admit I know lots of people who were damaged by being Witnesses, many of them kids who grew up in domineering, oppressive homes.
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  If your idea of a good breakfast is ...

  by compound complex in

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  'if your idea of a good breakfast is moose meat pie and spaghetti, then rice chex is not for you.'.

  i remember reading those almost exact words on the back of a rice chex box when i was a kid.. i can eat moose meat pie and spaghetti any hour of the day.

  why, only ten minutes ago i polished off a heaping, steaming bowl of mostaccioli, lolling luxuriantly in extra virgin olive oil and grated parmesan cheese, a side of bacon-flavored, blanched mustard greens and, finally ... two slices of kalamata ciabatta bread.

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  Today - Indian Scrambled Eggs

  • Heat a little oil in a heavy bottom pan
  • Add 1/2 teaspoon of black mustard seeds and when they start to fizzle a little add about 10 curry leaves and fry for about a further minute
  • Add one small finely chopped onion (or better still a few shallots) and fry for about 5 mins
  • Add one finely chopped tomato and 1/4 of a teaspoon of turmeric and 1/4 of a teaspoon of red chilli powder
  • Cook for a further few minutes
  • Add 3 well beaten eggs and continually stir until they are nicely scrambled
  • Serve on hot toast
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  First "Big Meeting" for our hall was tonight

  by Iwonder17 in

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  2. friends

  so we hadour first big meeting tonigh ( bookstudy, ministry school and service meeting ) here are my observations:.

  1) even though it is the same amount of time, it seemed verrrrry long.

  2) it seemed like a circus.....too many parts that did not relate to the others....seemed like a crossword puzzel with 6 different languages.

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  eyeslice

  Yes, it seems that the society has no time for little ones and children.

  I must admit that I haven't been to church much since I left the witnesses but like passwordprotected's church the one I did go to made quality time for the kids. They were involved in the proceedings and later left the main congregation to have their own 'Sunday School', whilst the adult congregation continued in more formal worship.

  I often think the whole Bethel service, district overseer, circuit overseer arrangement, where these are in the main lead by childless couples, have made the society totally child unfriendly.
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  ...Over 6 million Served...

  by OUTLAW in

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  ..3 meetings in 1 night!..it`s fast!

  !..it`s furious!

  !..don`t go over time!

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  eyeslice

  Spiritual junk food!

  I think a lot of us one time die-hards were the sort that really tried to bring the meetings to life and tried to be innovative and creative. But eventually you have to give up on the change from within approach - this organisation is doomed.
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  Guess what? New meeting sucks just as much as the old one did.

  by JimmyPage in

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  one lady even made the comment: "the person who studied with me said my little boy would never go to school.

  now i've got grand kids!

  " this got a big laugh.

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  eyeslice

  Nothing new then - what a surprise!
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  2009 - Something to look forward to or something to dread?

  by eyeslice in

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  continued economic uncertainty and the failure of financial institutionsauto industry in melt downunemployment set to rise to record levelsongoing destruction of the environmentfood shortages due to disproportionate distribution of wealthpreventable diseases rife due to disproportionate distribution of wealththe middle east a messterrorism an increasing threat but on the upside the big a must be even closer!.

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  have we got much to look forward to in 2009?

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  eyeslice

  I must admit that I am really an optimist by nature too, and the title of the thread is something to look forward to or dread! It is just that I started with the negatives.

  I agree that our wants, new autos, bigger and better computers, holidays and travel, etc. The desire for these things won't go away. Therefore things will pick up sooner rather than later.

  I do have a feeling that are going to be a little hard next year. And, I totally agree that no matter what happens, we probably won't starve and even things are difficult then we will still have a lot to be thankful for and to be happy about.
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  I was asked to speak at a local church...

  by passwordprotected in

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  ...and here's what i had to say; http://dl.getdropbox.com/u/430149/markatkbc.mp3.

  one local jw heard that i was speaking about leaving the wts in church and quickly labelled it, in ignorance, as 'witness bashing'.. .

  have a listen and judge for yourself.

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  eyeslice

  Nice one PP.

  I thought you handled the subject sensitively and in a non-confrontational manner. The Society likes to depict all those who have left as being raging, aggressive and irrational apostates. Like you, even when on this board I try to be respectful of those who are still Jehovah's Witnesses; I don't personally go along with the name calling and belittling of those who remain Jehovah's Witnesses. Perhaps, as you say, we need to remember these in our prayers.
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  The strange absence of meeting

  by slimboyfat in

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  does anyone else feel a large gaping void in their life tonight now that the book study has been abandoned?

  i mean i hardly ever go to the meetings these days but i still like the feeling that they are there even if i am not physically present.

  tuesday without a meeting is just weird.. .

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  eyeslice

  to reassign group members
  
  Sounds like a euphemism for eliminate
  
  On a serious note though what we tend to ignore that is the fact that elders will be still be responsible looking after 'groups' of people. But I cannot see that this is going to be very successful, without the actual group study on a weekly basis the R&F will quickly lose that sense of belonging. It will be like trying to herd cats.
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  2009 - Something to look forward to or something to dread?

  by eyeslice in

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  2. friends

  continued economic uncertainty and the failure of financial institutionsauto industry in melt downunemployment set to rise to record levelsongoing destruction of the environmentfood shortages due to disproportionate distribution of wealthpreventable diseases rife due to disproportionate distribution of wealththe middle east a messterrorism an increasing threat but on the upside the big a must be even closer!.

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  have we got much to look forward to in 2009?

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  eyeslice

  • Continued economic uncertainty and the failure of financial institutions
  • Auto industry in melt down
  • Unemployment set to rise to record levels
  • Ongoing destruction of the environment
  • Food shortages due to disproportionate distribution of wealth
  • Preventable diseases rife due to disproportionate distribution of wealth
  • The Middle East a mess
  • Terrorism an increasing threat

  But on the upside the big A must be even closer!
  
  Have we got much to look forward to in 2009?
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  DOES RAYMOND FRANZ 'CRISIS' BOOK TELL THE TRUTH?

  by whereami in

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  this person continues to try to discredit ray franz.

  for a person that is not a jw he really does not give up.. .

  http://www.topix.com/forum/religion/jehovahs-witness/tsrv22ro5585t9asm/p8.

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  eyeslice

  As witness, I found it really hard to convince most other JWs that there are always two sides to every argument. Elders in particularly have been conditioned to find this hard to understand.
  
  I am sure Freddie Franz and the other GB members would tell a different story to Ray. What we, as reasonable people, have to do is to be able to, in an unbiased manner, is listen to both sides and draw our own conclusions.
  
  I think we all know the Society's stand on Malawi, the 1914 generation, etc, etc. Then, we have read Ray Franz's side. We then draw our own conclusions.
  
  The trouble with Society is that they refuse to defend or reason on their position on serious doctrinal matters and hide behind branding all questioning voices as apostate.