Quote: "If you fall in love with a person of a different race, religion, country or same sex you don't chose to fall in love with that person, you just do.
So...you don't choose to? Really? Let's say this happens...
I am married and love my wife. Where I work a real cutie gets hired in my department and she is beautiful and sweet.
I start to have feelings for her as time goes on. What should I do? Go with those feelings and let it happen? It feels so natural and right to fall for her and I feel so good when I am around her.
Well... I could do two things
1. Fall for this girl and destroy my marrage to the woman who loves me.
2.Repress my thoughts about someone I have no buisness getting involved with, and telling myself of all the reasons this would be wrong.
Maybe I should do as one poster said Rosie O'donnel did. She tried women and men and said women felt more right.
So what should I do? Do what "I" "feel" is right?
Do people here really think we should do what "feels right" about this subject?
How many times are our feelings wrong and out of line because of imperfection?
Not a whole lot said here about self control in areas when we are out of line.
How many married men and women are on this board have not "wanted" someone else? What do you do with these feeling's......give in or correct yourself?
Should a homosexual give in to it cause it feels right or they want it that way? We all cannot give in to desires because it feels natural , or right to us. Some things are NOT right.
So many people today believe to listen to an authority on our lives is a loss of freedom. They feel we should do as we please with no judge or authority over us.So for them to be and practice homosexuality is justified.