Back in the late 70's there was lady who was getting ready for baptism who had an abusive, alcoholic husband, they had four teenage kids.
<br><br>One night the guy gets in a fight with his wife over the JW's while he is drunk, he grabbed her, and threw her into a glass storm door.
<br>She fell thru, breaking the glass, and cutting herself pretty badly. all the while their kids were watching the whole scene.
<br>The wife called the cong. PO instead of the police !
<br><br>he came over with his wife, cleaned her up, wouldn't take her to the hospital (the police would get involved) and told her to
<br>pray to jehovah instead.
<br><br>Most of her kids today are neurotic adults who have very little to do when it comes to dealing in reality (one is married to a PO herself.)
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What Is Your Worst Child Abuse Case Witnessed?
by Sarah Smiles inin the 60s, i remember the book study at my mothers house!
it was a shocker when a new bible study came in with his wife and their three children, one a new born.
anyhow, we watched him beat the babies head with his fist.
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Religion May Help Extend Your Life
by lancelink inreligion may help extend your life .
regular attendance is key, researchers say, but they don't know why .
by serena gordon, healthday reporter .
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Religion May Help Extend Your Life
Regular attendance is key, researchers say, but they don't know why
By Serena Gordon, HealthDay Reporter
Regular attendance is key, researchers say, but they don't know why.
WEDNESDAY, Nov. 26 (HealthDay News) -- Attending a weekly religious service, regardless of your faith, may lower your risk of death by 20 percent compared to people who don't attend services, researchers are reporting.
"Religion is always a hot topic, but particularly now, when people are perhaps in fear because of the recession and the threat of terrorism, people are looking for stability, and religion is something we find people reach out to for that stability. And, we see some health benefits here," said the study's lead author, Eliezer Schnall, a clinical assistant professor of psychology at Yeshiva College at Yeshiva University in New York City.
"Maybe it's the sense of community, or the support, or maybe people are less depressed when they join in religious services," he said, adding that the researchers tried to control the data to account for many of these factors, but "we have not completely explained it all."
Results of the study were published in the current issue of the journal Psychology and Health.
The study participants came from the large Women's Health Initiative observational study, and included nearly 95,000 women from all over the United States. The women were all between 50 and 79 years old at the start of the study.
When the study began, each woman filled out extensive questionnaires regarding health history, health behaviors, psychosocial factors, demographics and religion. Medical information was obtained yearly for each study volunteer, and the average follow-up time was 7.7 years.
Before adjusting the data, there was no significant difference in the risk of death between regular religious service attendees and those who chose not to attend. Schnall noted that there were many reasons why this could be so. But the main reason, he said, could be that people who go to religious services every week may be in better physical shape. "Maybe they're just healthy enough to go to services," he said.
When the researchers adjusted the data to account for physical health, age, ethnicity, income, education, social support, important life events and life satisfaction, they found that weekly religious service attendance was responsible for a 20 reduction in the risk of death. Attending less than once a week was responsible for a 15 percent drop in the risk of death.
But, attending religious services didn't improve the risk of death from cardiovascular disease or improve heart outcomes, the study found.
Although the study noted a decreased risk of death, Schnall wouldn't say that the prescription for good health is to attend religious services regularly.
"I'm not saying our study yields such a prescription, but our findings are intriguing and we do at least have some ideas of why there is a benefit, but we have not completely explained it all," he said.
Dr. Harold G. Koenig, founder and co-director of the Center for Spirituality, Theology and Health at Duke University Medical Center, called the new research "a very well-done study that provides good, well-controlled evidence that religious attendance is related to lower mortality."
"And, they [the researchers] show it's not just the social factor, it's not just the behavioral factors, and it's not just that some people might be too sick to be able to go to church. The researchers controlled well for these, though they still don't explain it all at the end," said Koenig.
"But," he added, "that doesn't mean there are supernatural effects, just that we don't fully understand the mechanism by which religion does this yet."
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NEED HELP RESPONDING TO THIS EMAIL, REGARDING HIGHER EDUCATION
by whereami inhelp me respond in a way that's not confrontational.
i'd like some sound resonable answers to this email, thanks.
he's a good freind and i know he means well.. .
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I had a teenager in my old hall who recently graduated from HS. His testing scores were really good, and Loyola university from
Chicago Illinois offered him a complete scholarship up to, and completing medical school.
His parents are the ultra-religious JW type, they convinced him to "reject the worldy way of thinking" and instead pioneer !!
Well, we followed their advice, and he was trotted out this past summer and fall whenever an example of spiritual things first came up.
fast forward;
He recently was DF'ed, why? I don't know.
Can he get that scholarship back? unknown. But he has the prospect of being an absolute brain without any higher education right now.
Personally I had an opportunity when I graduated from HS to go to veterinary school on a scholarship also,, since JW's don't do that
I gave it up.
One of the worst decisions that I ever made, I kick myself almost everyday because i walked away from that.
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Those here who disassociated- do you regret it?
by JimmyPage indoes anyone here who disassociated regret it?
do you wish you had just faded instead?
did disassociating give you a liberating feeling of power over your life?
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When I mailed my letter to the PO and WTS it felt like I felt as if a HUGE weight had been removed from my back.
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JW Teenager in moral danger at my house!!!
by AuntBee injust gotta vent here.
we're very close to a jw senior at my dau's hs.
he hangs out here all the time.
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There was an elder at my old hall,, his name if I remember correctly was J. Renfrow.
he was the local pedophile ,,always talking to, and getting cozy with ALL the early teenage girls.
If any young guy (excuse me a spiritual capable young man) walked into his group he would always make the girls doubt as to why the guy(s) were there.
He made it seem like anyone he did not personally "approve" of was a perverted sex offender. He did that to my son once at a picnic,I wish that I had some guts back then,(he was an elder, me,, just a common publisher)I would have thrown it right back at him as to why he was always around the younger girls.
This elder was the absolute worst one that I ever met (30 years worth)
I wonder if he ever got caught and labeled as a "sex offender" in the real world, that would have been a wonderful thing!
But,, since the JW's are bleeding capable brothers he is probably still in his position, protected by D.Redman, the WTS
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depending on how you are feeling, this might be more appropriate:
WARNING< language
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I don't know how to embed a video file, but if this doesn't make you laugh and feel good nothing will!
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usually it was personality clashes between the elders, sometimes it would be so noticable to certain ones,
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the price of your seat at the kingdom hall
by purplesofa inat a recent circuit assembly, a circuit overseer gave an.
awesome talk during the portion, "giving attention to.
the needs of the circuit.
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There was a little rascals show (1936) about the gang putting on a show and the ticket-taker forgot to collect the tickets
before the show. When he realized his mistake, the announcement was made " if you like the show, please pay as you exit."
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My Mom Says More Are Pioneering Since "That's All They Talk About"
by minimus inshe says since the end is so close, the brothers and sisters are wisely using their time pioneering.. i said, "they'd be better off going to college, getting an education".. her response: "a lot of good a college education will do them now.
nobody can keep a job".. .
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Those people that put off their careers then are now approaching retirement age. Ask her how many of them are still pioneering. All the ones I knew from that era curse that they did not get an education
Back in 1979 I had an opportunity to go to veterinary school on a scholarship (in other words,,,totally free)
Since the witnesses were dead set against college I did not accept it, I kick myself everyday for not taking advantage of that!!