Snoozy,
I agree, so many witnesses are good people. Its breaks my heart to see them so manipulated.
Your husband had asked that a witness come to see him, but it is you who is really helping him the most. You are the one being so loving, comforting and reasuring to him. You are the one being strong and telling him it is ok, when you are probably just as afraid as he is.
I think about you often and I admire your strength.
I really appreciate you sharing your experience with us, it makes me think about whats really important in my life.
Out&free,
I am really looking forward to meeting you too!
I guess you almost cant help having a some kind of spiritual experience when you are so near death or watching someone else pass on, its such an emotional time. The person I spoke about was my great aunt, my grandmothers sister. My grandmother had passed away before I reached the hospital to see her.
My grandfathers death was the most disturbing to me because I know for a fact that he didnt want to die because he asked the Dr.s to do everything in their power to keep him alive. In the end, he refused a tranfusion during the surgery and my family enouraged him in making this decision. He later died on the operating table.
This is when I began seriously doubting the society and everything they stand for.