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  Just was given the 'cold shoulder' by my own sister in public...

  by babygirl30 in

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  that fat, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth i cannot stand.

  yes...i said it... i cannot stand my own sister!

  the girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically is mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person.

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  Assembly Parts NEVER made sense to me....!!!!

  by babygirl30 in

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  this is and always has been one of my biggest gripes: assembly parts/experiences.

  not 1....ever......e-v-e-r was even remotely relatable to me.

  now i have traveled all over the place (and to other countries) and i have sat amongst rich and poor jws, suburbanites and urbanites, siddity folks and straight 'hood'.....and not 1 assembly experience made me sit up in my seat and say "wow - that's just like me!".

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  What does a congregations 'record' say about it?

  by babygirl30 in

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  the cong i belonged to was very large...it was the 'popular' hall!

  i say that because it was a new building (double-khall), a lot of families went to this hall whether they were in the territory or not - if their relation went there or their 'friends' were in this cong - they came too!

  lots of young couples...they drank together, they partied together, they go out clubbing together, and they all had their kids together.

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  WHY am I the last to know?

  by babygirl30 in

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  about 2 mos ago...my parents decided that because i refused to continue my 'reinstatement' process and quit going to meetings - that they were now going to shun me after having regular contact for 10 mos!

  i was upset, but accepted it.

  although their method was harsh!

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  Living With Regret - what do YOU regret about being in the org?

  by babygirl30 in

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  1. getting baptized at 14 and not knowing what the heck i was 'signing' up for.

  2. dating worthless, lazy, no work ethic, selfish 'brothers' who were supposedly approved all because they were baptized - but in the end - were a waste of my time and younger years in dating.. 3. subjecting my bf (back in the day) who was a non-jw to the whole jw experience!

  i demanded that he study, i demanded that he change his religion in order to be with me, i made him sit with my parents and listened to them berate him (and myself) while they fed him all their haughty beliefs and requirements in order to date their jw daughter.

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  What is my legacy?

  by babygirl30 in

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  as i was cleaning my house last night, i was boxing up all my jw literature i still had out in the open...and i was surprised how there was so much!!

  i still had the videos in plain view, my bookshelf in my computer room was full over old kms/watchtower & awakes/bibles, and found my old mtg and service bags still full of literature too!.

  so i throw the majority of it out, box up the rest, and then when i'm done and relaxing, i start thinking about what my legacy will be.

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  WHO polices the Circuit Overseers?

  by babygirl30 in

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  is required to 'monitor' the elders...but who monitors the c.o.?

  i ask that because thinking back to all the c.o.

  's i've had seen, each had his own personality and style.

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  Mental Disorders and family dysfunction in JW org

  by babygirl30 in

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  this is solely about my family...how messed up they are and will probably be till lord knows when.. 1. dad is a controlling, emotionally abusive, non affectionate, narcsissist.

  everything needs to be about him in some way shape or form.

  no compassion whatsoever for people who do not 'worship' the ground he walks on...and that includes his own children.

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  Explaining what DF'd means to a non-witness

  by babygirl30 in

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  i actually had to do this twice in the past 2 weeks - and it's really shaken things up!

  the first time was last week.

  my aunt (who lives out of state) asked me how my parents were doing (her brother and my mom)?

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  Bethelites and Athletes - are they the same?

  by babygirl30 in

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  forgive me if i sound completely cynical - but i have always wondered what the big deal with was brothers who are living at bethel!

  i have known sisters that would give their right arm to be around them, snag one, and/or be able to say she is 'dating' a bethelite - as if that's the greatest thing in the world.

  jw's from all over the world come to 'visit' them and they receive clothing, trips, food, boarding - all for free!

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