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  I now have a gay boyfriend! Disfellowship me!

  by TimothyT in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i cant believe how amazing i now feel as opposed to how aweful my life was but 4 months ago.. after some careful consideration, i decided to be gay despite being a jw.. the moment i chose this course, my life became so positive and i noticeably felt happy again.. 3 months ago i met a lovely man who took an interest in me.

  one week ago we decided it was time to become boyfriends.. well, i feel incredible.

  all i can say is that this course of life based on my being true to myself, despite the fact that it contradicts what i have been brought up to believe, has made life worth living again.. despite being gay, and slowly coming out to those who matter to me, i also have come to realise how flawed this organisation is anyway.. im a keen bible student but i dont see the organisations claim to authority.. to be honest, ill be glad to get out of it and start living my life as happily as i can whilst still trying my best to serve god.. thanks to those who supported me and of course to my boyfriend 'jackal' who joined this forum in order to understand what has made up my entire upbringing!.

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  nolongerwaiting

  Good for you! :)

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  New ex-JW memoir coming out...

  by brizzzy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i don't post a ton here because i'm kinda shy.

  http://www.amazon.com/dp/0373892357?tag=thegirsguitoh-20&camp=14573&creative=327641&linkcode=as1&creativeasin=0373892357&adid=038ez4bjpam7bcsze5mq&.

  that's the amazon link (which is currently the most affordable, i believe, but it's also available for preorder at b&n, borders, indiebound, and indigo-chapters if you're in canada, if you prefer one of those retailers).. .

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  nolongerwaiting

  I saw it on yahoo too and smiled. I hope you sell a lot of books.

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  My Favorite snowboard pictures i took this season! Vote and comment which one is the best!

  by Snowboarder in

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  2. physical

  my favorite snowboard pictures i took this season!

  vote and comment which one is the best!

  it's all from vancouver, grouse mt or cypress!

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  nolongerwaiting

  Yeah I like them too. Very pretty pictures.

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  JWs at my Door

  by laverite in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  doorbell rang.

  saw through the peephole that it was jws.

  opened the door and said "hi" in a friendly manner.

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  nolongerwaiting

  I liked your reply. I've thought about what I would do if someone came to my door. At this moment I am so fresh out that I would probably just hide. I'm not someone who has witty brilliant things to say but I so wish I did. It doesn't help matters any that I am very non-confrontational.

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  Are most JW families dysfunctional?

  by 21stcenturywoman in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

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  based on certain families who i've known personally in the "truth", there was infidelity which resulted in children out of wedlock, drug abuse, abortion (involving an elder's teenager), verbal, emotional, & physical abuse (by parents and spouses), and dependence on public assistance.

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  My family wasn't but NLW's family was.

  NLW's wife
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  Id like to Invite all to the annual memorial this Sunday for our Lord Horus who died for all mankind

  by foolsparadise in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  please invite whoever has an interest in learning about gods son horus our redeemer..

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  Can't say I'm too familiar with Horus, but I'm all for keeping Saturn in Christmas. Does that count?

  How come nobody ever has a memorial for the stars that literally did die for us?
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  New to this forum and few thoughts.

  by sweetrose74 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  well i have not been a part of the jws for over 12 years.

  i was born and raised one.

  indoctrincated from birth you can say.

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  nolongerwaiting

  Welcome. I am so glad that you are free. :)

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  new poster

  by doughnuthole in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  hi, i'm not new here, been lurking forever, just a new poster.

  i was a jw for 25 years, did it all,been out now for 7 years, for the most part have healed pretty good.....but some things can't seem to shake.

  the thing i'm most regretful of is raising my children in that cult, if i could just re-do that, i think i could be totally over the trauma of the 25 years i was in.

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  nolongerwaiting

  Welcome.

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  Where Did You Think You Stood?

  by Ding in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  consider a scale from 0 to 100.. 0 = if armageddon comes tonight, i am doomed for sure.

  100 = if armageddon comes tonight, i will survive into the new system for sure.

  back when you believed the wt was the truth, what range on this scale reflects your own assessment of where you stood with jehovah?.

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  nolongerwaiting

  I never felt good enough either.

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  I'm going on a work trip to Scotland & Northern Ireland!!!

  by Low-Key Lysmith in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  pretty excited.

  i recently accepted the position of master of whisky-pacific northwest for diageo n america.

  basically, it's a whisky brand ambassador gig.

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  nolongerwaiting

  That is so freaking cool!! I'm excited for you. Man, now I want to tag along. lol

  NLW's wife