Celestial, I can appreciate your annoyance with some of the comments on this forum and you will notice that there are many others that are too. Often unsubstantiated claims are questioned which is refreshing. There is nothing stopping you from expressing your opinion in those threads and as long as you are reasonable and put forth a realistic response they are always appreciated.
I guess it is a matter of understanding what the motive is behind a post being made. Being a JW has impacted on many people in a very negative way, on this forum you often see the aftermath of that.
It is often very hard to understand what someone is really saying or at times can expose behaviour that is really not acceptable. You have done this yourself, take these comments of yours, for instance -
I've come across an occasional congregation member that was a mooch (they're flagged and avoided), but I've always known congregation members to be hard working and self-sufficient.
Is that really proper christian behaviour to 'flag and avoid' someone within your own family-like congregation just because they have a habit of trying to 'mooch' on other member? These are members that need a lot of encouragement and direction to help them stand on their own two feet, they can be included as ones needing a lot of help rather than the opposite.
The problem of crime within the congregation, hidden or exposed substantiates the disfellowshipping arrangement although this thread depicts the disfellowshipping arrangement as a precursor to suicide
This comment is not very clear. If a crime is hidden then there can be no disfellowshipping.
The disfellowshipping arrangement includes being cut off from not only friends, but also family. The punishment is also given to individuals, at times, that a truelly repentant but because it is not apparent to the elders or for other reasons (such as an extended period of sinning) they are still punished. Not only that and just these things can be horrendous but they are treated as if they have been cut off from God himself and cannot possibly return to having a good relationship with him until they meet the strict rules and works that the elders stipulate, even though most of that is supported in the bible. If you don't think this can lead someone to suicide then that is a very strange opinion.
You may be right in that a person committing a crime should be disfellowshipped but you go further in saying that it substantiates the disfellowshipping arrangement. It certainly does not as the some of these 'crimes' my be quite minor or not supported biblically. The 'arrangement' can also result in punishment that in no way befits the offence.
You are always going to find some posts that exagerate things or are straight out lies and therefore it is always good to keep a balanced view. Personally I find this forum has given me the opportunity of understanding, to a far greater degree, what the bible really teaches.
I am sorry to hear of your depression and hope that you can work through it.