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  A little update

  by Bucholz in

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  hello everybody, even though i don't post a lot, i visit and read the threads on this site quite frequently.. wanted to give you a little update and ask for some advice at the same time.

  since my exit, about 2 years ago, everything had been almost perfect.

  i was living on my own, making new friends, elders from my old hall weren't bothering me at all, i was enjoying life.

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  Bucholz-You could ask your little brother questions that come from the Bible Stories book, such as 'Why do you think Jehovah let Aaron make a golden calf to worship and he didn't get punished, but the man who was picking up wood on the Sabbath Day stoned to death?' 'Which do you think was the worse sin, leading a whole bunch of people astray from worshipping God, or trying to make a fire to cook your food?'

  Use critical thinking questions and reasoning, let him work the answers out for himself though, so your mom can't say that you've been telling him apostate things.
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  I'm New... and I'm running...

  by running_away in

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  it's some kind of funny... i was the perfect little ass, even that i never believe it all.. there was something that doesn't sound right... but, i was little, i was with my family, i never believe that my family will make me adopt a cult.

  well i get batized in my mid teen years, i was the exemplar, ms at 19, even serve my time at bethel.

  get married to a pioneer, start a spiritual family, get my 2 kids.

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  running-Welcome, thanks for running here and posting your experience.
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  Why elders' wives are such gossipers...

  by Calebs Airplane in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  i have a theory as to why elders' wives gossip so much.

  i believe a big part of it has to do with the conversation running dry (between themselves and their elder husbands) after so many years of marriage.

  since they don't get to spend too much "quality time" together (because of the elder husband's hamster wheel schedule), when they do have some intimate time alone, the elder's wives will invaribly attempt to engage their husbands in any kind of interchange.

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  While I was never an elder's wife and never was in the 'know' about things, it does cause me to wonder: If you weren't supposed to be talking about people and what was going on, just what were you supposed to be talking about? There is only so much you can say about the latest Watchtower. People want to know about other people, it is just natural human interest-look at the TV shows that document crimes, i.e. 48 Hours, Dateline and so on.

  We all want to know who the pedophiles are in the cong., you are not going to find that out unless someone tells, I am grateful when I hear that someone told that there is a pedophile in a cong.
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  Blondie's Comments You Will Not Hear at the 05-26-2013 WT Study (DWELLING)

  by blondie in

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  a real dwelling for the faithful.

  dwelling for his name people today?

  8, 9. in what ways did jehovah prove to be a. real dwelling for jacob, and what can we learn.

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  Re: paragraph 5, never, ever thought of Abraham's lie as not trusting Jehovah would protect him and keep him safe from harm so he could enjoy his 'promise'. But that really does seem to be the case doesn't it? Great observation blondie!
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  Does anybody seriously believe Solomon was "great"

  by mP in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so where are his buildings, monuments, in real life ?

  why cant archeologists find them ?

  where are the tourist attractions ?.

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  Of Course He Was Great-He had a great appetite for sex, probably the most prolific wife/sex slave (concubines) accumulator in the world. That's pretty great...men in the middle east have been trying to catch-up with his numbers ever since.
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  WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TESTING WITH EVIL NAD ALLOWING OTHERS TO DO IT?

  by blondie in

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  *** w09 4/15 p. 6 par.

  16 job held high the name of jehovah ***.

  even when crushed by the news of the death of his children, job did not ascribe anything improper to god.

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  Supposedly, sons weren't supposed to pay for the sins of their fathers (don't remember the scripture location), yet when the father is faithful, his children will be killed to test his faithfulness. So the perfection of the fathers could lead to the death of the children. Poor Job, 'he couldn't win for losing', as my grandma would say.
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  USA | California | 10-year-old Jehovah's Witness Girl Shot Dead

  by jwleaks in

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  2. friends

  slain 10-year-old girl spoke of devoting her life to ending violence hours before she was shot.

  by stephen magagninipublished: friday, may.

  just hours before she was shot to death, 10-year-old elvira campos said she wanted to devote her life to teaching people the bible "and its promise that one day all the violence would end," said her best friend and teacher, olga cruz.. "that afternoon i picked her up for bible study, and we talked about the future," a tearful cruz recalled thursday afternoon.

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  Extremely sad. The parents leave Mexico for a better life in 'Sunny California' and then is subjected to this senseless and cruel act of what appears to be racism. My heart breaks for this poor family.
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  Drinking at meetings / assemblies / conventions ... who's done it?

  by HarryMac in

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  2. beliefs

  for me .... 1).

  last district convention after having 'read up' (took some family to it).. 2).

  last 'meeting' to watch step-father-in-law finally get his and get disfellowshipped for molestation.. ...both were taking vodka shots in the bathroom.. i'm sure there's lots of good stories out there..

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  I went to a DC in Germany in 1981. Many of the JW's sat in front of the stadium at picnic tables, drinking beer openly. I was in awe and wanted to have one too, but my aunt wouldn't let me. Dang. In 2001, went back to Germany, and the sisters were wearing pants out in service, in the middle of the summer. I was soooo jealous.
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  Wallkill is it a Commune?

  by PaintedToeNail in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  after reading how many people live at the wallkill facility, it made me ask the above question.

  after looking up what 'commune' meant in secular sources, it seems that wallkill has all the hallmarks necessary to actually be a commune.

  meals complete with assigned seats and required attendance, dress requirements, wake up times, music and tv restrictions, work assignments, heirarchy making all decisions, no money being earned by the workers, the vow of poverty.....

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  Band-From what I've been reading, communes of the 1960' & 70's weren't true to type, with free love and drugs. It seems like communes really got going in the 19th century as religious groups started places like the Amana Colonies in Iowa, Harmony Society in Pennsylvania, Oneida Community in New York and the Shakers. All having major religious influence and say over peoples lives. Many have died out. There are a few communes on going today that seem to be more of back-to-earth movement thing associated with the 1960's, than with religion.

  It would be awful to have to get up early in the morning, get dressed up and be nice to people before having morning coffee, I don't know how the Bethel people do it.
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  Wallkill is it a Commune?

  by PaintedToeNail in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  after reading how many people live at the wallkill facility, it made me ask the above question.

  after looking up what 'commune' meant in secular sources, it seems that wallkill has all the hallmarks necessary to actually be a commune.

  meals complete with assigned seats and required attendance, dress requirements, wake up times, music and tv restrictions, work assignments, heirarchy making all decisions, no money being earned by the workers, the vow of poverty.....

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  PaintedToeNail

  After reading how many people live at the Wallkill facility, it made me ask the above question. After looking up what 'commune' meant in secular sources, it seems that Wallkill has all the hallmarks necessary to actually be a commune. Meals complete with assigned seats and required attendance, dress requirements, wake up times, music and tv restrictions, work assignments, heirarchy making all decisions, no money being earned by the workers, the vow of poverty....