i got a interview for today a few days ago.
the interview is for orkin, a pest control company.
i haven't had a interview in a while and hopefully i don't get nervous.
Watch your body language. Keep your arms at your sides, not in front of your body. Don't cross your legs. Appear relaxed, not tense or anxious. Smile a lot. Exude confidence. Answer questions with a confident voice. Pretend you are interviewing them, and ask good questions. Formulate some questions before you go. Look up info online about interviewing.
Good luck!
40+ yrs ago when i moved into this congregation's territory i became good friends with a brother in the congregation, about 20 yrs older than me and about mildest, most easy going person you could meet.
he was just full of old fashion country style common sense, taught me a lot about country life, like heating with firewood, (yes, there is a lot to know about cutting and heating with wood), taught me how to skin and cut up deer, he would help anyone who needed help........., so about 30 yrs ago he was df'd.
we would occasionally bump into each other, i would never not say hello, but him knowing i wasn't suppose to talk to him he would (and i) just move on.
It's great when you meet up with someone after a long separation and pick up as if you just saw them yesterday. Good for you!
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last sunday's public talk was about tools the devil uses to tear down our faith, and as usual; apostacy, false teaching and erroneous thinking came up in the point, and the speaker went on and on, accusing apostates of being perverts and aspiring to live a life of debauchery which couldn't be tolerated amongst jehovah's people.. he further went on stating that if eventually apostates get into the world, they often find themselves not being able to mix up with satan's system as a result of the bible based understanding which they had acquired, and they ended up getting bitter and wasting their lives .
those words were quite frightenning, i never heard it this strong before!!
It is an honor to be dishonored by those control freaks. I suppose child molestation, backroom interrogation about sexual detail, harassment, and discouraging human development and education are "holy" things.
I wear their scorn as a badge of honor. - Dan Quayle
i don't know if this has been on here before but i came across it from a google news search for "jehovahs witnesses".
would someone be so kind as to make this link clickable!
http://www.autostraddle.com/things-i-read-that-i-love-66-reading-in-underpants-161749/.
That was a great story!
It reminds me of a time in the past when I accompanied a Vietnamese friend to a low-income apartment building where a lot of Vietnamese refugees lived. Most of them didn't speak English, so I observed them as they told my friend their stories. Apparently because I did not understand what they were saying, but could only observe their facial expressions, voice intonations and hand gestures, I got a pretty good idea of the character and truthfulness of the individuals (or at least I felt that I was seeing right through them.)
It is incredible how Amber, by living as more of a "worldly" person, even in a very different culture, learned that life could be better outside the borg.
i haven't been to the meetings in just about a full year and i get a call this morning from my dad inviting me.
his words were full of guilt trip.
he said he would like us to go as a family like i'm breaking it up if i don't go.
I would like to say that you shouldn't go just to please someone else, but with the dubs it's just not that simple.
You should, however, make it clear that you guys could do many things as a family if he were not so servile to his masters in Brooklyn.
from this weeks watchtower study:.
in what sense has jehovah felt regret?.
on a number of occasions, the bible mentions that jehovah felt regret.
I regret spending so much time in a belief system that is stupid and cruel and, what is worse, trying to convert others to it. Jehovah may regret that I did that as well.
i remember reading a very good letter sometime within the past 6 months.
i have been looking for it and can't find it.
i don't even remember who wrote it but they didn't send it at the time.
Free2beme: If you'd been around during the Revolution, Jefferson would have been your lackey!
the june 15 2013 w pg 13, para 6&7 has an experience of a pioneer that needed $66 to pay her rent the next day.
she prayed and went to work at her job as a waitress.
when she finished her shift she had received a total of $66 in tips.
I have a similar story.
Several years ago, my daughter, granddaughter and I moved to Reno. At first we lived in a hotel where we paid by the week. Our weekly rent was due each Wednesday, I believe. The hotel would only take cash or a credit card. We used cash, which we kept in a tin in our room.
One evening, my daughter took my granddaughter to a co-worker's child's birthday party. Meanwhile, I went out to gamble.
The next day when the rent was due, a hotel employee had taken advantage of our absence the night before and stolen our rent money. My winnings at gambling the night before covered the rent. So my going out to gamble saved the day!
http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx36t.htm.
narcissistic patients try to sustain an image of perfection and personal invincibility for themselves and attempt to project that impression to others as well.
physical illness may shatter this illusion, and a patient may lose the feeling of safety inherent in a cohesive sense of self.
When I had a co-worker with NPD, I went for therapy. The therapist pointed out that lots of CEO's have this disorder. That is one of the difficulties with bringing them down to the level of everyone else: they tend to rise to the top.
I agree that you seem obsessed with this topic.
so as someone newly awakened, my thoughts have turned to "why didn't i see this sooner?
how could i be so blind?
" part of it is that i never realized anyone may have left due to differences with the doctrine.
Years ago, I read Barbara Grizzuti Harrison's book, Visions of Glory: A History and a Memory of the Jehovah's Witnesses. She makes the point in the book that most witnesses do not consciously decide to exit. Most of them feel pushed out. Many of the people on this board, I am sure, are in this category, myself for one.
Put yourself first. Concern yourself less with how your actions affect others, as you're not harming anyone, and concentrate on building a good, happy fulfilling life for yourself.
Best wishes!
