The debates, the sometimes favouratism, the human hang ups, showed me that these were entirely human decisions.
Shortly before he was kicked to the curb, ignored, and ridiculed by the oh so "loving" body of elders until the day he died, my father who was exactly what an elder should be said, "Anyone who claims that most elders decisions are not influenced by money, power, or nepotism is either extremely naive, or they are outright lying!"