1. How is DF unfortunate.
On this forum it's shorthand for "disfellowhipped". Oops! Meant "disfellowshiped", but the typo is good - I'll keep it
2. I know for a fact they don't make you cut contact with non-JW friends because the person doing the bible study with my has introduced me to some of his friends and many of them aren't even JW's.
You're drawing a broad conclusion based on one person??
3. From what I can see they don't try and encourage you to take low-paying jobs, there's one JW at the Kingdom Hall I've been going to and he owns a construction company, another is a computer teacher.
There'll be exceptions of course, but you only have to read the experiences of those on the board to find that my generalisations tend to pan out.
Besides, I don't know why you are asking this stuff - you seem to have your mind pretty well made up. Perhaps you're here to try and get someone to confirm that you're doing the right thing - perhaps there's a tiny, nagging voice deep inside you that doesn't quite agree that everything the Dubs are telling you about your new life in Paradise is Kosher.
Q: How do you know a Dub loyal to "Jehovah's Organisation" is lying?
A: Their lips are moving.