jws and this site are so freaking pathetic. There are some serious losers on there. If you are such a catch and so spiritual why are you advertising on a online dating site? Some of the profiles are funny as hell.
ikhandi
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Online JW matchmaking!
by Abaddon in.
this is so surreal; i'm gonna find me an 18 year-old pioneer sister... mmmm.... http://www.jwmatch.com/welcome.php.
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What was you JC Meeting like?
by sandy in(inspired from caspian's thread) i hope the stories help rebel.
i was just wondering if any of you would like to share the details of your jc meeting.. i remember mine so well.
i was about 22 years old when i went to a jw relative of mine and broke my silence about sexual abuse i suffered as a child.. at this point i was involved in some normal young adult behavior (sex, drugs & rock n' roll) but because of my religious upbringing i was going crazy over it all.. well somebody took the liberty of telling the elders i wanted to talk to them about my devious behavior that i never admitted to anybody.
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ikhandi
I simply refused to give them the answers they were looking for? Its really stupid to ask a question you already know the answer too! It pissed them off entirely. I honestly believed that collectively that had made the decision to DF before I sat foot in the hall that night. Oh well what's done is done! Thank God I am OUT!!!!!!!!!!
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Have you or have you known someone disfellowshipped more than once??
by anakinsrise ini cam close to being disfellowshipped once,i was a servant so they only took awy all of my duties,and priv's.but i know a sister even dated her for 10 months who has been disfellowshipped 3 times.it was kind of funny because her 2 fleshly sisters got disfellow'ed around the same time and they all didnt seem to care and went to jamaica for 3 weeks.1 of them even came back pregnant.
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ikhandi
but the elders treated me like crap since I "disassociated" myself and was not "disfellowshipped" It seems that they treat you worse when you disassociate because they feel you are of the "evil slave" class when you disassociate but when you are disfellowshipped you are just taken over by weakness
That is sad but so true Jads
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ikhandi
Whats the deal with people on here who always feel the need to try to attract more attention for themselves by starting the thread "I am leaving" Just leave and move on with your life. Is there a need to start a thread for it? Its so lame
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What Is Your Favorite Jewelry???
by minimus inif you could enjoy a jewelry present of any sort, what would you want??
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ikhandi
My gold charm bracelet given to me by ME
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Are you Paralyzed with fear?
by ikhandi insharing you experiences has been a source of therapy for me.
i have noticed that they are many active posters on this site who ae not df or da but are inactive in the org.
they have been here for quite awhile and yet still go to the meetings at the hall.
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ikhandi
First of all I would like to thank everyone here who has been of help to me. Sharing you experiences has been a source of therapy for me. I have noticed that they are many active posters on this site who ae not df or da but are inactive in the org. They have been here for quite awhile and yet still go to the meetings at the hall. You show your distaste for the wts and the organization as a whole. If you no longer have love for the organization what is prompting you to get in your car and drive to a meeting or two a week? Isn't that leading a double life? When do you make that pivotal decision that you are leaving the org for good? Is it fear that is holding you back? I am so curious.
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How Screwed Up Are You Because You Were A Jehovah's Witness???
by minimus inafter reading so many experiences about how being a jw affected a person's life, i wonder how your life has turned out because you were at one time a witness.
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ikhandi
I found out when I left that I really did know how to fit in with society as a whole, mainly because I did not have much life experience living in the real world. Growing up a jehovahs witness I lead I really sheltered life. As you all know we are told to only associate with other jws. "Worldy Associates" are off limits. My whole life was consumed with meetings, field service, and studying. I had no real life and missed out on many firsts. Like this morning I was reflecting on all the things I missed out on. Ever year around this time I think about how I missed out on my senior prom even though I really wanted to go. Never played school sports even though I was a very athletic individual and had skills when it came to playing basketball and track. Never had a real relationship with a person of the opposite sex until I turned 24 and subsequently left the truth. It simply is not normal to live a life of a jw. Thankfully I had enough sense to know when I was still in the org. I needed to go to college to acquire some marketable skills. If not I would probably be washing windows. I was never srewed up I was simply disillusioned.
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You Should Feel Guilty If You Don't Pioneer Even If You're Retired or Young
by minimus inper the june km, if you just got out of school and are young and decide to get a great paying job, you should feel guilty.
and if after you finally can relax a little and enjoy retirement in the last few years of your life, you are expected to pioneer as soon as possible.
the articles were designed to produce major guilt in any that might want to do otherwise.
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ikhandi
I went to a Thursday meeting for the first time in 4 weeks
Why Minimus? Am I missing something.
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What was the "final straw" that made you leave the JW's ??????
by run dont walk inwhat happened or was said, that made you decide, enough is enough, i am out of here ?????
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ikhandi
I was mentally and physically tired. I needed a break
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What weird habits do you have?
by JH ini always go to bed naked, even in the winter.
i eat at odd hours, whenever i'm hungry, and that happens fast.
breakfast at 6:30am, dinner at 10:15 am (i'm hungry) supper at 3:30 pm (still hungry).
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ikhandi
I am obsessed with clean teeth and breath so for what seems like forever I brush my teeth after I eat anything. Most days I brush my teeth on an average of 10 times. Btw I have the most whitest teeth you will ever see.
JH you have a serious car fetish