Bang; Why don't you admit you WANT to believe in god, even though there are many contradictions and a BIG lack of proof for the theory of god? Your cheerful attempts to fit a square peg in a round hole seem to indicate this.
You justify god's lack of action in the drowning scenario outlined by JosephAlward by saying;
Yes. If a person was always recklessly doing things that caused them to get into drowning difficulty. You might let them swallow water, experience drowning and become unconscious, later to revive them. They'd think twice about drowning next time. Even so, some people are simple determined to drown, and it's a bit upsetting that. But He's able to bring them back to life, they just don't know it, and why tell them that and cause an even more hardened attitude?Look, I don't know about you, but if the first time I did something that bugged god (or to use the illusration, the first time I did something reckless that meant I was drowning), god let me know, in a clear and objectively verifiable fashion (Moses got a burning bush, why can't I? In terms of the illustartion, it would be being plucked from the water by no hands and deposited on dry land, or maybe, walking on water), well, I wouldn't do it again. Being an atheist when you've just had god prove it existed AND ask you not to do that again is not a realistic option.
Your god seems to be a trick player, and very human. How sad. I don't believe in god, as there is more evidence for the lack of god than for god. But if there was a god, then I like to feel that it would be w o n d e r f u l.
Instead, you have to make up reasons why god doesn't tap us all on the shoulder, look us in the eyes, and let us know that it is true.
If there was a god who cared, it would. The absence of such proof is an indication that god is as you see him (a trickster, and very human), or that god doesn't care, or, most likely, that god is just a nice idea, like non-fattening chocolate.
People living in glass paradigms shouldn't throw stones...