I don't have much experience yet with trying to wake people up, but I have enough to know most don't want to be awakened.
It is their worldview, hope for the future, and get-out-of-jail-free card all rolled into one. For some it's their hobby and passion as well.
It is way more complex than just an argument to be won.
Most people must come to realize it on their own somehow.
I started opening my mind after noticing some things on my own in the organization and then slowly opening up to more info on the internet.
Jwfacts.com was huge. Jwstruggle videos on YouTube were big. Specifically the topics that really got me were:
1) Light getting brighter scripture taken in context
2) faithful and discreet slave scripture actually looked at in context and analyzed
3) the mind control cultish techniques used in the watchtower like loaded language and thought stopping phrases
4) flip flops and ridiculous doctrine changes out of desperation and nothing close to divine inspiration
5) 1914 and even more so 1919
It is a hell of a process and a slow one that demands patience on our part.
-TE