I am still in awe of my wife who made it all work during those busy years in the organization. She had four children to take care of, meals to prepare, house to clean, clothes to wash and all the other chores of running a household. And she did this for years. Without her I would never have been able to function as one of Jehovah's Witnesses and a "servant" in the congregation.
One time when a circuit servant and his wife were entertained at our house, my wife spent extra time cooking their favorite meal and entertaining them while visiting us. After the meal, the circuit servant's wife got up from the table and said she was going to "relax" before going out in service. She even had the audacity to ask my wife if she was going to join her. My wife said she was sorry but she would be unable to go. The fact was she had too much work ahead of her justing cleaning up after the meal. It was this kind of inconsiderate behavior of the overseers and their wives which eventually made us question the whole organization.