My first and hopefully last vent on JWD

by nvrgnbk 95 Replies latest jw friends

  • z
    z

    Nvrgnbk,

    You are one funny dude we all love ya

    Z

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    They are the ones that are mentally unwell and need to go on medication in order to find their way to a healthy mentality they are the victims of a brainwashing cult manipulated and exploited ruthlessly.

  • sass_my_frass
    sass_my_frass

    WBTS is a breeding ground for mental instability; "sparing the rod" means different things to different people, and a mentally ill person takes it as permission to beat their kids to a pulp. Guess what; you can live really well without contact with your parents (I'm hoping that my poisonous mother leaves me alone eventually).

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    nvrgnbk

    Vent on, vent on...

    Thanks so much for inquiring about my brother. He was a Presiding Overseer and MTS grad

    Tell your brother there is at least 1 other MTS grad on this board who is fading....he needs to post on JWD. He can stay anon..many on the board (including myself) try not to ID ourselves at this point.

    And if he went to THAT school, then he knows the inside dirt on the Borg... tell him to post tell him to post! We need stories and the inide scoop.

    SnakesInTheTower (of the fading Sheep Class)

  • TheCoolerKing
    TheCoolerKing

    Glad you got it off your chest NVR! Just remember, if you need to vent again, we are here for you!!!

    Hang in there budl!!!

  • Stealth453
    Stealth453

    SpawnofNvr

    Great handle.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    I'm just returning from an enjoyable meeting with TheCoolerKing.

    I am overwhelmed by the kind response of all of you.

    I plan to comment on each of your posts, but must be off to bed.

    Just ask TheCoolerKing. I was yawning at dinner.

    Love all of you so much. Thanks for the understanding and support. Just typing that little bit of my life was therapeutic, but reading your response is truly healing.

    Again, love to you and yours.

  • SirNose586
    SirNose586
    Wait. It gets better. Because of some decisions I've made recently in my personal life, my father told my brother that I am no different from the narcissistic gunman in the VATech shootings. I know I'm not perfect, but that comparison hurts.

    That's as cold as ice. But you know, I suppose if someone un-deified my "god' (The WT), perhaps I would use such an extreme comparison too. These are the words of a desperate, vindictive man.

    How good to know that you are stronger than these sharpened, viscerating words...

    I look forward to reading your son's posts...

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Gayle - Thanks for your love and for adopting me Grandma. I made up my mind when I became a father at 21 that I would not repeat the errors of my parents. I didn't want my son to be a screwed up as I was. At the time I didn't know how screwed up, nor the role the cult had played in it. I just knew I had to do better by him. I am at peace knowing I have.

    Madame Q - Sorry for what you suffered as a child. Thanks for helping me to see that it was as traumatic for my brother to see me get beat as it what for me to actually receive the abuse. That seems to be exactly the case. I'll move on. So many here, you included, have helped me to feel better already.

    R - I know from reading your posts that your mother isn't exactly "a walk in the park" either. And yet you still take care of her. Talk about unconditional love. Thanks for always being a good friend, even when I've had to pull my foot out of my mouth. Regards to your hubby as well.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Primate Dave- Thanks for the clarification.

    Warlock- I love you too WACKO!

    Delilah- Thanks for the hugs sister. Next time I'm in Ontario, I'll stop by and see you and your husband. I know you like good beer and he likes good Scotch. Nuff said.

    done4good- Actually, what you said means quite alot to me. Thanks.

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