My first and hopefully last vent on JWD

by nvrgnbk 95 Replies latest jw friends

  • LeslieV
    LeslieV

    Always remember that the issues are your parents and not yours. You are in no way to blame for their unkind, selfish, self-centered behavior. They were this way before you were born. Some people should no be parents...period.

    Be proud of yourself, abusive behavior is generational....you have decided to break this cycle by seperating yourself from not only controlling parents, but a controlling religion. Your child has a wonderful future ahead of him. Vent away we are all here for you.

    Leslie

  • codeblue
    codeblue

    It's ok to vent..... I am so sorry to read about your physical abuse from your Mother

    Seems like she is living in denial of that physical abuse and now she has carried over with severe verbal/emotional abuse......

    I am not in your situation but I would consider her very "toxic" and not worthy of your company in any way shape or form until she has apologized and tries to make amends for all the abuse she has dished out to you.

    Please make sure you are around people that see your value.... that is what you need right now.

    Vent all you want...you deserve it!

    Codeblue

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Thanks LeslieV and codeblue for all your love and understanding.

    I am thinking about cutting ties with my parents until they offer a sincere, honest apology. God, just saying that feels so good and empowering.

    Thanks for being there for me.

    I didn't know what unconditional love was until I started posting on JWD.

    Love and respect,

    Nvr

  • free2think
    free2think

    Nvr we are always here for you. Please feel free to vent whenever you need to, thats the great thing about this board, there is always someone here to help. I know reading your post and your replies have really helped me in my recovery.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk
    Nvr we are always here for you. Please feel free to vent whenever you need to, thats the great thing about this board, there is always someone here to help. I know reading your post and your replies have really helped me in my recovery.

    Ditto sis! You really Vietnamese? I love me some Pho Dac Biet with Sriracha sauce.

  • free2think
    free2think
    Ditto sis! You really Vietnamese? I love me some Pho Dac Biet with Sriracha sauce.

    Yeah of course i am.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk
    Yeah of course i am.

    Oh. Ok. I get it. I think.

  • free2think
    free2think
    Oh. Ok. I get it. I think.

    I prefer chinese food myself, it's easier to get over here.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk
    I prefer chinese food myself, it's easier to get over here.

    Ahhhh. Now I know exactly what you mean. Not really.

    Cryptic is cool though.

  • free2think
    free2think

    I try.

    Maybe it's time to change my location again, where shall i be from today, hmmm............

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