Wait a minute. I don't mean to pick on this NC, but... What's the difference between saying NOBODY who lives on wellfare lives like royalty, and saying someone is living in a million dollar home so they ALL live in million dollar home... ???
Okay Nomad, I know my "NOBODY" comment is really getting to you, so let me clarify.
NOBODY who depends solely on welfare lives like royalty. Okay? It is impossible. Now if that welfare is subsidized by generosity, circumstances, or fraud, then yes, a person on welfare may end up in a million dollar home. My objection to terms such as "welfare queens" is that this was a stereotype conjured up by conservatives to suggest that the realities of poverty don't really exist, and that people in need are out to bilk the system. No, nobody is saying that all welfare recipients live in million dollar homes---but the sentiment is there---that welfare recipients are living high on the hog at the expense of the taxpayer. So my issue is not with being outraged at possible misuses (they are the only ones that make the news. Who really wants to read about the real plight of the poor?), but with the stereotype.
Also, just because a person lives in a million dollar home, it does not necessarily follow that they live like royalty. I owned a cleaning service once, and what I saw was that what showed on the outside was very different than what was going on, on the inside. Don't assume those homes are full of grand furniture, or even that they are furnished. In my area, appearances were more important than reality. So having someone clean every few weeks was an expense that brought prestige. Furnishing those homes however was not. If they needed to entertain, they rented furniture.
So we can't make financial assumptions based on the home or car we see. Someone could appear rich and driving a luxury car, but be eating mac and cheese everynight. OR someone could be gifted a low rent or a nice car and still be eating mac and cheese every night.
Again Nomad, in context, my point is to resist the conservative trope that the poor are somehow duping the system and their suffering is not real. I know it takes a lot more words than WELFARE QUEEN to sum it up. I know it requires us to look deeper. I know it means looking past the kneejerk reaction. It doesn't fit on a bumper sticker and takes some thought. But the truth is, there are no welfare queens. That would suggest that welfare made them rich. If they seem to be rich and they still get welfare, then we have to look a bit deeper for the answer--be it fraud or something else.
NC