then they come to me (just a friend) and ask me why men are not kind and loving. So far I have always managed to keep myself from flipping them off at that point. It really pisses me off.
Maybe if you go ahead and flip them off, they will grab your finger and start sucking it lasciviously- - you bad boy you!
Seriously? I'll just make two main points. a)Much of the time, the guys who consider themselves "nice guys", really aren't that nice. b) Some women are just plain dumb as dirt. Especially when it comes to distinguishing between feelings and logical thought. Don't spend too much time being frustrated by those womens' seeming lack of logic.
This survey result was on the MSN home page today. Probably large enough to be fairly accurate. Read it and weep:
The official results of our very unofficial survey are in. When we asked guys and girls to rate their top ten turn-ons of all time, you can bet we got some pretty interesting responses—most precariously balanced between progressively hip and downright cliché! Sound familiar? That's how most of us define romance anyway, right? And I wouldn't have it any other way!
1. A nice, healthy body. Feminists might place this one lower on the list, but a nice body came in at number one. The consensus was that "someone who is conscious of their body, is physically active and dresses for their body type" is a killer turn-on.
2. Confidence. Need I say more? A person who projects true confidence is sexy. Period. False confidence appears rude and conceited.
3. A good job. Though I groaned at this one, let's face it: Knowing that he or she isn't going to mooch off of your salary forever is always comforting.
4. A cool car. It seems we haven't made much progress since the 1950's here. Still, some people noted that a funky new car design, a low emission hybrid or a big sexy truck could all be considered "cool."
5. Fashion sense. You don't have to be a label junkie, but hot pants and cowboy boots aren't really appropriate for an office party. Vintage clothes and black everything seemed to be the safest bet.
6. Nice hair. I'm sorry to say this rated higher than being considerate, but no one thinks a mullet is sexy anymore. Welcome to 2002.
7. Good manners. I'm sure glad to see this one on the list. Being treated respectfully and watching your date treat others that way is the fastest road to Turn Me On City. Bossy, rude people aren't fun dates and definitely don't inspire you to make out.
8. Scent. Smell can be an incredible turn-on! And though sometimes plain old chemistry is enough, you can't beat a good bar of soap and an expensive cologne!
9. Lack of neediness. There's no surer way to lose someone than holding on too tight.
10. Creativity. And not just in the bedroom! Creativity includes coming up with ideas for a date, a meal and anything else that turns your date on.
