Nice guys left in the cold

by Elsewhere 72 Replies latest social relationships

  • Naeblis
    Naeblis

    Would an asshole take her to the downtown library! eh! eh!! :) I did make fun of her enormous head though :)

  • forgetmenot
    forgetmenot

    A turn on for me is honesty. I really haven't ever fell for a guy I didn't think was being honest with me, bad boy or good boy.

    Another is intellectualism. You don't have to be smart or intellegent but you have to care and be willing.

    And finally, another, is that they are as interested in me as I am in them (which has alot do to with the later of the first two turn on's).

    But eh, I find myself attracted to all sorts of guys. PS: I am a female.

  • somebody
    somebody
    It seems to me that most women just want to be thrilled


    Maybe most women just want a nice guy who thrills too. Most women happen to just want the same thing that most men want. Someone who is nice-n-thrilling. Perfect combination.

    somebody
    P.S. I didn't read this whole thread so if anyone has already said this, sorry for the repeat. Call me a slacker.

  • Stealth
    Stealth

    Okay, I have the nice guy part down, but could use some tips on what thrills the women.

    So ladies, what thrills you? I am looking for examples.

    -stealth

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Ok... how about a combination of Intellect and Thrilling? I haven't done this yet, but here is the idea: Time a date with a fly-over of the International Space Station or an Iridium Flare. Take her to a public park and let her know where and when to watch.

    If you have never seen one of these, it is spectacular - a light show appearing in the sky out of nowhere! (and on schedule. )

    http://www.heavens-above.com

    Believe in yourself, not mythology.
    <x ><

  • gravedancer
    gravedancer

    Since I am a mean shit I get all the chicks I can handle

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Hmmmm, "mean as shit"... (taking notes)

    Believe in yourself, not mythology.
    <x ><

  • think41self
    think41self

    I never understood that whole "being attracted to bad guys" thing.[8>]

    I mean, when I was 14 years old maybe...but when a lady grows up, she leaves that silliness behind her. I've been married twice, and they were both "nice guys". Of course the one I'm married to now, is a nice combo of thrilling and nice.

    Here's a hint for you. My idea of "thrilling" is: When you have such a deep emotional connection, that even when he walks in the room, you tingle at his presence. It's not because of anything he does, but who he is. A guy that is self assured, has a good sense of humor, and is just a kind person, is all the thrill I need. You gotta have that "connection", that's all there is to it.

    think41self

    If I'd known I was going to live this long, I'd have taken better care of myself!

  • KissAFish
    KissAFish

    AHHH.... You shot me down in flames, 2 SYN!!!! hmm so much for a pick up line..LOL[;O] But looked at the other link and YOU ARE ALL GORGEOUS!!! Keep shining...!!!

    "Never let a fool kiss you and never let a kiss fool you".
    IRISH PROVERB

  • KissAFish
    KissAFish

    AHHH.... You shot me down in flames, 2 SYN!!!! hmm so much for a pick up line..LOL[;O] But looked at the other link and YOU ARE ALL GORGEOUS!!! Keep shining...!!!

    "Never let a fool kiss you and never let a kiss fool you".
    - (northern) IRISH PROVERB

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