It is understandable that they simply haven't realised that Jesus came dispelling that idea by showing and telling of God's love, showing a father who counted the very hairs on the head, teaching that the poor and rejected are especially cherished.
Pointing out where your reasoning is flawed, is not taking offense. Pointing out that you continue to falsely portray our position, is not looking for hurt. Did you WANT to understand the atheist perspective, or did you just want to declare what you think it is?
Regarding the highlighted portion----this is proof that you DO NOT understand our perspective, so I will try to state it again, maybe using different words, and hopefully it will make its way through.
It does not matter why Jesus came. It does not matter if this god is so wonderful, so perfect, so moral, so wise, and so powerful and loving that we all look forward to a future dancing among the rainbows with butterflies. It. Does. Not. Matter.
It does not matter if this god is stoking the flames of hell for most of humankind, sending plagues and floods as punishment, empowering slave owners and rapists. It. Does. Not. Matter.
Our issue is not with a particular story about a god---but with the entire concept! Just because something sounds wonderful, it doesn't make it true. Just because it sounds horriic, doesn't make it true.
Get on the yellow brick road and head for Oz and all your wildest dreams will come true. But OZ does not exist! Even if the wizard is reported to be the most wonderful person in the world, if he DOES NOT EXIST, then an atheist will not set out on the yellow brick road.
There! Now you've forced me to use a Wizard of Oz analogy!