When God is criticized for displaying His wrath in the OT, most of that criticism is centered on the time of Joshua and the Israelites entering the Promised Land. As a nation, Israel had entered into a covenant with God, which bound all of the nation to abide by God's standards of holiness (see Deut 29:10-15). Even in modern warfare do not huge numbers of innocent people suffer death or harm ?
At the heart of this question is the consistency of God's character.
Is God's character is limited to either mercy or judgment but He cannot display both ?
Why not allow the time and space for the complete manifestation of God's grace ?
The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. (Ex 34:6-7)
The LORD said to me, "Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another and is an adulteress. Love her as the LORD loves the Israelites, though they turn to other gods and love the sacred raisin cakes." (Hos 3:1)
I believe God's nature and character includes both mercy and love together with anger and judgment
A time to love and a time to hate. A time for war and a time for peace. ~~~ Eccl 3:8
Here is the example of the innoculation I was referring to. It also shifts the goal posts and distracts from the original points. This isn't about a time but a question of character. For instance, if we are dealing with a serial killer that has not killed in 20 years, do we then just dismiss it? Do we look at this person and say, Oh, well, sure, he killed, dismembered and ate 200 vicitims, but that was a different time and place and he seems loving now? No. We don't do that. The best test of character is not when things are wonderful, but when things are not.
We do it even today. Are you familiar with an abusive spouse/boyfriend telling the woman that no one will ever love them like they do? I actually know about thiss happening several times to real people in my real life. They punch them in the face, kick them, rape them, but no one will EVER love them like they do. And others become complicit when they say things like, 'well he's a good provider, father, friend." You see?
Mercy and Love. Anger and Judgement.
So tell me. When his law says that a rape victim can be purchased from her father and forced to marry the rapist for the rest of her life---would that be mercy and love, or anger and judgement? You support this, Caliber? You really support a god that would have such a disgusting law? I think a little bit of our humanity chinks away as we try to make these things okay, and find ourselves defending them. Because it is not what we would do, and doing so means supressing part of our compassion and empathy. There is no other way. We must simply detach from the humanity of it, refuse to see it through the eyes of the victim, and somehow make such barbaric behavior okay.
Yes, there is the issue of war. But this god had an especially brutal brand of war. All war is brutal, but the US doesn't take female captives from their land and force them to marry American soldiers. I'm not dismissing the US here, I'm simply drawing a contrast. No, war was not enough for this god. He found it necessary to focus on the weakest of his victims and victimize them for the rest of their lives.