FISHERMAN- I didn't say or insinuate " I think people are stupid ". Stupidity has nothing to do with it. What I DO believe is that most if not all Jehovah's Witnesses are kept controlled through use of FEAR and GUILT by high control manipulation by WT leaders which keeps them scared to exit the organization as even you mentioned. Which is unethical manipulation by the WT Society and it's leaders.
Your statement, " Even if you let go by not associating, you can't let go mentally. " I disagree with that statement. There are about 20,000 JWN board members that might disagree as well. Many of us have educated ourselves concerning WT Society fallacies and failed promises on the Internet by informing ourselves through unhindered research. Some may not have let go mentally- but many of us have. We have access to information that you as a Jehovah's Witness are not allowed to have access to. That's not a judgmental statement- it's just a fact. You are already having doubts yourself about the 2014 thing or the overlapping generation thing- I sincerely recommend that you do the research on the Internet even more fully so as to satisfy your own mind and observations. You have everything to gain with freedom of mind by doing thisresearch and possibly bolting to freedom away from enslavement to the superstitions of the WT Society. Just my 2 cents