Imagine a different forum was having a similar conversation about JWs.
Some nice liberal posters opined that they know JWs who don't shun their disfellowshipped family. Another posits that they know a JW who secretly allowed their child a blood transfusion. Many posters have JW neighbours and colleagues who they like. Others know JWs who party and drink just like normal people.
One person quotes offical statements from the WT indicating that issues like blood and shunning are entirely the personal decision of individual JWs as guided by their conscience..
The posters who are saying that JWs are a dangerous cult, and that every JW who is not a "lapsed" one, is a religious extremist is branded by the others as a hateful bogot.
Who could these people go to for an honest perspective? How about you and I? We know the reality behind the official bullshit and we understand the big picture.
Why don't we all do the same thing with Islam? Ask those who know best.
May I recommend Ayaan Hirsi Ali...