Whew. Sorry I couldn't answer earlier. I realized I had taken a WAAAY too long "lunch" and needed to get some work done. Please be patient as I may need to answer some of these questions in increments. (Doggies at home may need me to take a break!) I can tell this is going to be long...
JT:
now the question is WHO DETERMINES "TRUE"
Not I. I can look at someone and see them cheat, swindle, fornicate, do whatever is against the Bible, but do I know if they are a TRUE Christian? It boils down to "no". Only God makes that judgement. I do believe one day I'll go to heaven. And I also believe I'll be surprised by some of the people that are there. I'm sure I'll also be surprised by some of the people that AREN'T there. In the meantime, I treat that person with kindness, love and respect as that is commanded by Christ. (Whether they are a believer or not!) I see your point though. I believe that "true Christians" WANT to live by the standards set out in the scriptures...which means they do on a more frequent basis than they don't.
why is your true more truer than the next born again person--- who believes that if i don't accept his belief system i am lost-
I don't know that it is. I don't believe you are lost or not. It's not my place to say. I may look at someone and think "They can't be a true Christian...he sleeps with anyone that tickles his fancy" but MY OPINION matters not. It boils down to God's opinion of that person. He has the advantage of reading that person's heart. I don't.
Are you willing to admit on the WWW that others beside BA have just as good of relationship with the divine as you,-
Yes. Even on the WWW. But I think your definition of a BA may be boxed in a little. My definition of a BA is not the bible-thumping Southern Baptist that believes cigarettes, alcohol, and dancing will make you burn in hell forever. My definition of a BA is a person who has basically had a spiritual awakening with God that creates a "newness" in that person's heart, more often than not moving him to make some major changes in their life.
I am affiliated with a fairly liberal Southern Baptist church here in Dallas. I have friends that are Catholic that have been "born again". This is not a Catholic term per say, but their relationship with God and "newness" in mind/heart/spirit have created some major changes. There are people in my church that would say my friends are NOT Born Again simply because they are Catholic. I do not believe that. I don't think the Bible supports their beliefs.
you see the whole concept of Belief systems require that you say others beliefs fall short
Says who? You know everything I believe because I claim to be BA? Again, don't box me into what you THINK being BA is. I do not believe that other beliefs fall short. I do not know. I know my beliefs work for me. I believe my Lord Christ and God are happy with me. And to ME that's all that matters. It is YOU that should worry about YOU. It is Spanner that should worry about Spanner, or Little Toe worry about himself. I believe one of these days I will have to answer for ME and ME alone. Not you, my husband, my children, etc. I am not here to say anyone's beliefs fall short. But I do believe one day GOD WILL. Maybe he will say your beliefs fall short. Maybe it will be me standing before His throne that day. Who knows until it happens right? In the meantime I live my life the way I see fit and hope others see my life as one they'd like to have.
we had a discussion about BA awhile back and it was funny watching 2 sets of born againd go at each other OVER A REAL FIERY HELL
one BA said no real fire, the other said it was, and they both called themselves THE REAL ba
I know sometimes it's hard to believe a specific belief system without getting passionate about it. If you believe it that strongly then of course your passionate. Sometimes those passions are uncontrolled and the whole POINT is lost over arguing about doctrine. I will never argue about doctrine. I have beliefs about doctrine and I will share them, but I believe you are entitled to your thoughts as I am. I refuse to argue because IT'S NOT THE POINT. Too many Christians LOSE FOCUS by arguing hellfire, heaven, eating blood and other Pharasaical ideas. The only doctrine I believe is ABSOLUTE is LOVE. Christ taught that is the only law to live under. If we as Christians take that law to heart, everything else fades by the wayside. I heard a quote once "It's hard to give a hug when your arms are crossed." I love that quote because it's so true. If I LOVE you I will respectfully listen to your beliefs, perhaps share some of mine, we'll laugh over a beer and talk about our last vacation. Fortunately that seems to be the base idea in many Eastern religions as well. See I'm not entirely closed-minded to other beliefs.
It's not my business to judge whether or not another has salvation -
you made the above statment- let me ask you Do your belief system (Born Again) teach that One can get salvation without being Born Again , such as a jew or muslium, hindu-
and what is the penlty according to your belief system for not being BA?
Once again, remember that you are boxing in what Born Again means. Some people that are BA say that the only way to heaven is through being Baptist or Catholic, JW, etc. No I don't subscribe to every belief of a Hindu, Muslim, Jew, etc. But is there a possibility that God could use that religion as a tool to speak to those people? Even a faint possibility? I believe so yes. I believe there are different tools that God uses to draw people to His heart.
I remember as a child asking my parents about the Native Americans. Would they have salvation? Of course my parents being JWs said "No. They didn't love Jehovah." That always bothered me. It bothers me today that they believe the children of India or Indonesia or Africa that have never heard of Jehovah don't have a chance for salvation. How terrible for God to NOT give them the opportunity to decide before they died! I wonder sometimes if there is another phase of Life after Life on earth. I wonder if He makes Himself known through other avenues (ie. Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, etc). Again it boils down to right now - I DON'T KNOW. But I have faith that God at SOME POINT makes Himself known to everyone on earth. Maybe not in the past, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but at some point...maybe in another life? I just don't know.
To JT and anyone else that isn't a Christian or is a Christian and does NOT believe what I believe...it's okay. Many know by now, that although I attend a Southern Baptist Church, I am not a Southern Baptist. I am a Christian. I am a follower of Christ and not man. I just happened to find a church family where most of my associates believe as I do.
Thanks for giving me the opportunity to share. And I hope you had the patience to read all this. LOL!
Andi