CAN MEN AND WOMEN JUST BE "FRIENDS"? (page 7)

Elsewhere

I told him that a good friend will be there when the boyfriend fails.

I've known your type before... you love to "hang out" with the nice guys while you date and fuck the bad boys. When the bad boys break your heart you use your nice guy friend to cry on his shoulder and then you go find another bad boy to fuck and get your heart broken again.... and they cycle continues.

Sorry, but I don't play that game.

If a woman views me like a "brother" I stop and ask myself: "Will she be willing to fuck her brother?". The answer is always "No", so I don't waste my time with her.

If you think that is shallow and mean, then stop and think for a minute... is it not also using someone if you only use them for emotional support and then toss them to the side when it suits you?

Mecurious?

SixofNine

:CAN MEN AND WOMEN JUST BE "FRIENDS"?

Yes, I think it's possible, especially if the male will agree to chemical castration.

stillajwexelder

WOW Elsewhere - something is eating you

Mary

Ravin said: This one guy friend i had at one time decided to end the friendship because he liked me so much he couldn't stand hearing me talk about the guys I was dating. He was willing to ruin a perfect relationship because he couldn't control his feelings. I told him that a good friend will be there when the boyfriend fails.

Ravin, apparently you've never fallen for someone who only views you as a friend........I know exactly how your friend must have felt because I find myself in this very situation which is why I started this thread. I've been friends with a co-worker for the last several months and like an idiot, I've fallen for him. There's only one tiny problem: he's married. I know, I know....stupid thing to do, but when you work several hours a day with someone, it's not really easy to prevent these feelings from cropping up.

I've considered ending the friendship because I'm finding it harder and harder to be with him knowing that it's never going to go anywhere. I have no idea what he feels for me, or if he's happily married or not but I can't get involved with a married man cause I'd just end up getting my heart broke, plus it's not morally right.........he invited me to his birthday party this weekend but I don't think I should go.....it actually takes A LOT to end a friendship with someone you really care about. I feel really bad for your friend.

tetrapod.sapien

else,

don't hold back man. LOL.

hopelesslystained

Elsewhere, you are right on! Many a female have toyed with the male for sympathy while playing their sexuality in the background to keep their attention. No, I am not guilty, just have observed it often. Definitely not fair in my book. If you are going to flaunt it, you had better be ready to carry through, for better or worse. ;)
Ummm, the bad boys are yummy, but one must be ready to accept the bad.

chrissy

HA!

Cheers to Elsewhere for telling it like it is.

lol.

GetBusyLiving

LOL @ Elsewhere!

: id love to have some guys as just friends but its never really happened that way, dont know why.

That's because we all want to nail you! Always.

GBL

Es

I think it may be possible, although all my males friends that im just friends with i am not attracted to them in anyway but they are attracted to me, which at times makes it uncomfortable when i have them over with my fiance.But they have never crossed the line. es

CAN MEN AND WOMEN JUST BE "FRIENDS"?

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