on the night before my wedding, my mom came into my room with the talk.
she said she knew i probably knew all about the wedding night, but did i have any questions?
she then told me to remember one thing tho...that you aren't to touch it.
That's hilarious! It would have been even funnier if your husband had to chase you around the honeymoon suite with you yelling "MY MOM TOLD ME NOT TO TOUCH THAT!!! GET AWAY!!!!"
I agree that some people get wacky ideas no matter what their religion, I don't ever remember reading that a wife couldn't touch her hubby's popo.
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jackson custody twist.
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MJ was baptized, went in FS the whole ball of wax.
I know he has gone out in service, but I always understood that he was NOT baptized...I think this might be tough to verify either way...not that it is at all important though...the guys a plain freak...JW or not.
i have been visiting this site for about a year now.
i was not raised a jw.
i got conned in as an adult but my now ex-wife was raised in the collective.
I agree with you Maverick. Any hardships in my childhood had to do with my dad being an alcoholic, not with being a JW. I didn't have the hard time that others here seemed to have, I was quite happy as a JW kid.
i'm here for an attitude adjustment i guess.
i'm 28 years old and i'm out of the loop.
i was a witness up until a few years ago when my wife and i faded away.
Descender - You are NOT out of the loop, there is more going on here than you just being old fashioned. A couple good theories already pointed out. You might want to think about visiting a marriage counseler.
last night i wallked through a suburbia neighborhood.
i sat for a time, crosslegged, on cement pebbles.
there was a teenage girl twirling her baby sister around and around and around the lawn.
Sounds interesting.
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anyone a pixies fan?
wow, this my be the first fluffernutter topic that i have started
Pixies fan here. Me and my buddies at Bethel were all Pixies fans. I remember one night we had some Long Island friends visiting our room and we were listening to that song. I had to walk the guests out of the building and they were saying how they thought it was demonized because "the devil is 6" part! I thought they were retards.
Oh and if the JWs find out she is thinking of visiting a site like this or talking to other people about JWs they will most likely use an analogy like "If you wanted to learn about Jews, would you ask a Nazi?" or "If you want to learn about Basketball, would you talk to a golfer? No? Then if you want to learn about JWs you should talk to JWs."
A better analogy would be, if you were about to buy a brand new car and you found a website of unhappy customers...wouldn't you want to hear what they have to say?
Tell her to visit this site to get a critical viewpoint of the religion that she will NEVER get from JWs.
a friend of mine is becoming a jw, but her boyfriend is not, will this cause problems?
We could go on for hours and hours about why she should be cautious about joining the JWs...but for me it can be summed up rather nicely in the fact that once you are a JW one of the greatest sins that has drastic sanctions is that you ARE NOT ALLOWED TO READ ANY MATERIAL FROM ANYONE THAT IS CRITICAL OF THE JW ORGANIZATION. If you do, you are seriously reprimanded and if you don't get rid of it you are kicked out and everyone treats you like you don't exist, they won't even say Hi in passing. Maybe not a big deal to someone who has just joined, but many people are members for a long time and only have JW friends and family and then are treated as dead by all of them. This alone should raise a red flag for anyone.
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lol.
ok here goes.... how old were you your first time?
I know some of you might laugh at this, but missy and i are planning to 'stick around for the long haul' and even longer. We really love each other.smyler
That's good to hear Smyler. With that in mind, when you make your decision, keep in mind what the consequences of sex can have on the "long haul." An early pregnancy when you are both very young would place great stress on your relationship and your ability to take care of your loved one and actually rob you of some of the best times of a life long relationship. My wife and I had children WHILE we were using birth control. Just something to think about.
