If my wife wished no blood transfusion I would respect that. So long as she is in charge of her facilities, it is HER life. However I could not ever be part of a murder/suicide. If she could no longer make a decision because of a coma or such, I would without a doubt do authorize a transfusion. This is a decision that NO ONE ELSE should interfere with. As spouses go, the spouse has final decision. Period. Hospitals should never allow non immediate family around the patient. This is truly ghoulish.
To those who refuse to "eat blood" I am still waiting to find out if any became a vegetarian. After all isn't that what the true meaning of that phrase is? My JW associate will not answer my querie.
BTW-wife is not a Witness.