((((((((((Doug))))))))))),
I feel so badly for what you are going through at this time. To say that your father is and was a good man, is truly a compliment to him.
My dad needs to "move toward the white light..." for everyone concerned, including himself. Whatever is on the other side, I'll see him there. I told him this also.
Your father is blessed to have a son like you.
I wish you well.
Love,
Robyn