purrpurr,
Welcome! So a few quick things. First.....take it easy. Don't overwhelm yourself, but study as much as you can. People on this board believe a variety of things, and that is OK! Your personal views one way or another, are your own. We can discuss them, challenge them, evolve with them.....but NOTHING is off the table.
You can call it Christian freedom, you can call it the right to think......but you are able to research ANYTHING and ask ANYTHING.
Big difference from how we grew up, without even realizing it.
If you haven't gone to JWfacts.com try to do so. Everything there is verifyable. No "apostate lies" to make you scared of the boogyman.
As far as the paranoia of spyware, or modem spying.....while technically I am sure it is possible, I do not think it is plausible. Nobody in your hall probably even has the accument to pull off such a thing. Don't worry about it.
BUT.....the fact you ARE worried about should tell you something.....right? :)