Dear JT: I did not grow up a J-dud but my little girl did. Fortunately she 'saw' through the BS and would not go along in her teens. I have custody and she is free to live her life as she wishes. Her Dud mother tries to lay guilt on her but the girl is over it. I do feel I cheated her out of some things but she seems not to hold it against me. She knows I was a dud and that says it all! I feel for you guys, you were robbed! Life it hard enough on the young without being put under a magnifying glass! Maverick
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Empathizing with JW Kids
by JT infor those of us who grew up as jw kids, the life as a jw child is often time very difficult.
while we are out of wt and we can talk politcs and take sides unlike before, i can't help but feel for the jw kids who are in school.
as the nationlism increases with the kids being assigned to write to the national guard guys from their town, it is like hell for the poor jw child who has no idea of why he can't wish a man a safe return to his family.. .
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Why Do JWs Come Here to Debate?
by Victor_E inhe who has sight is blessed; he who has insight is a thousand times blessed.
what motivates jws to engage in a debate with former jws?
this question is something i have written about in years past and my hope is that it will provide some insight to the newbies.
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Dear Victor_E: I am impressed! One of the things I liked about being a J-dud was the mental challenge of giving talks. Many a brother would confess that they hated going up to the platform after me. A tough act to follow was the phrase I heard many times. Very few J-duds impressed me or showed much intellect. But here, I feel like the dumest guy in the room! Gamaliel, Blondie, Blackguard, you and many others impress the hell out of me. I leave this site thinking. I love to check this site in the morning because it will give me food for thought all day. One of the reasons I am active in Mensa is for the mental stimulation. If you're not members you all should be!... Humbled in your presence. Maverick
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Would you want to live in a Kingdom under the Duds?
by Maverick inone of the 'problems' i had before blackguard deprogrammed me was i could not reconcile the actions of the j-dud masters with a loving god.
i felt if god was with these people i did not want to live in any new system under this power structure.
if god was as phoney, vengeful, and petty a person as his faithful and discreet slave was i was better off dead.
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One of the 'problems' I had before Blackguard deprogrammed me was I could not reconcile the actions of the J-dud Masters with a loving God. I felt if God was with these people I did not want to live in any New System under this power structure. If God was as phoney, vengeful, and petty a person as His Faithful and Discreet Slave was I was better off dead. I felt He held a death threat over my head, love me or I will kill you. Now I know that thinking is from the heart of the evil false god of the WatchTower Masters and I am at peace with the True God. Did anyone else have a problem with living in a New System under these hypocrites? Maverick
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My Official Resignation....
by dottie inhey everyone...i have had it!!!!!
resignation i am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult.
i have decided i would like to accept the responsibilities of an 8 year-old again.
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Hey! Robin Williams has been acting like an eight-year-old and look how well he is doing! I have a little saying; "To be an idealist you have to be a realist, reality is what you base your ideals on, and your ideals make reality bearable!" Maverick
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Prophecy Fails, Witnesses Too Brain-dead to Notice
by metatron inthe king of the north collapses and falls apart - effectively vanishing.. do any witnesses wake up to see how bogus their prophecies about this were?.
the un is proven to be toothless and - often - irrelevant- far less than a world government and with.
far less practical force behind it than ever before.
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When your a dud, your a dud from your first cigarette, to your last dying breath. A loyal dud will believe anything 'Mommy' tells them. Maverick
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Living a lie?
by Victorian sky ini've been inactive for several months.
i know it's not the truth and mentally i've walked away.
would it be living a lie to remain inactive?
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Dear Vic: What lie? Being an active J-dud and supporting their delusion is living the lie. Many of the members 'know' it is BS. They go along anyway, they are the losers.
I didn't care and kicked those J-duds in the shins, but that's my style. They were going to DF me for a little incident regarding the virtue, or lack there of, of a certain sister. I wrote the Baptisim Nullification letter, raised hell, and they DA'd me as an unbaptized publisher. If they had not started the investgation process I would not have moved on them first.
Hold your hand close, only make a move if they target you. Maverick
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Why do some of you get so worked up over this, JW's control relies on lack
by Its so simple inpersonal growth.
most people are angry at themselves for not seeing it sooner and they just blame the wtbs.
if it was not them there would be something else that 'filled their need' and would have ensnared them.
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Dear Gamaliel: I will gladly sit at your feet and ponder. Maverick
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Our Friends - Now and Forever!
by Farkel inas many of you know, i'm a huge fan of thomas jefferson.
i'm currently reading a book called "the portable jefferson.
" it has only the briefest of jefferson's biography (a mere 41 pages), with the bulk of its nearly 600 pages devoted to copies of jefferson's speeches, and letters.
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The Brits are great but they sure need help when it comes to building a decent refrigerator? And what 's the deal with the old Jags? I had to rip out all the British crap and put a good old chevy, 305 V8 and all new wiring. Who was that moron Lucas anyway? Maverick
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Comments You Will Not Hear at the 3-23-03 WT Study
by blondie incomments you will not hear at the 3-23-03 wt study
february 15, 2003, page 18.
(the reviewers comments are in black or within parentheses.
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Thank you Blondie: I do look forward to your synopsis of the WatchTower! What a load of guilt riddled crap! What did they really say? Nothing but... do more! No excuses! And who buys this load of dodo? The honest hearted ones who do love Christ and are trying their best. The phoney Witnesses are fine with their own reasonings and don't care. They will pay lip service to this 'encouragement' but that's all. The GB just pile it on and load down the meek and turn their heads so as not to see the burden they put on the weary. And close their eyes so as not to see what hypocrites they and their straw bosses are! Maverick
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Bunny Rabbit Day
by Sirona inever wondered where the bunny rabbits and eggs of easter come from?.
march 20-21. ostara, spring equinox.
http://homepage.ntlworld.com/spiritwolf/ostara.htm.
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I always thought that bunny rabbits came from other bunny rabbits and Ester eggs came from the Governing Body. They have been laying eggs for almost ninety years! Maverick