Gregor,
This is were you are wrong. I was not trying to DEFEND my beliefs because they do not need defending. You original question was if there is a God why does he permit suffering? You asked those who are believers to give evidence as to why they believe it. I was trying to give an answer based on MY beliefs only.Because I cannot answer in any other way. Everyone is biased in that respect because they have their own belief system. Everyone else who answered this thread tried to do the same thing. Simply, answer your question based on what THEY believe.
No one was trying to shove our beliefs down anyones throat or say we are right you are wrong. That is the point that many of you are not getting. If you ask someone if they believe in God and why, then the people who will respond are those who have that belief. If you don't want a response because you feel someone is pushing their views than WHY would you even ask the question in the first place? If someone answers your question, how can some of you say "you are pushing it down my throat". Don't ask the Q anymore if you dont want an answer. You don't see any believers asking the unbelievers WHY they dont believe in God do you? Frankly I don't think most of us really care.
Never once did I get on the board and say I am here to convert anyone to a certain belief. I usually only talk religion with the other believers. No one can convert anyone anyway, because religion is a personal choice. There is no such thing really as converting someone. And there is no really right or wrong choice. As long as you are not hurting anyone, what difference does it make? I think all religions have some good and all have some bad.
My point is that the whole Q from the beginning was a loaded Q. Thanks though for the post becuase you have helped me to be better able to indentify a loaded Q for next time and simply avoid it.