by ashitaka 108 Replies latest jw friends
and exactly how do you do that OUTLAW?
.. wedge the door between his cheeks and use 8" nails i guess
unclecarpenter
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goodluck ashitika
wouldn't it be great to kidnap and de-program these crazy men at some lonely farmhouse. (it might not work but it'd be fun trying)
unclebruised
Just make sure you're able. Get what help you need. You should know by now that you're dealing with some evil people. Often they'd rather die than loose all face.
Bang
Ashi,
((((((Hugs and more Hugs your way!)))))))
I am very upset by this and just hope I remember every thing I have been thinking to relay to you.
I’m sorry you had to endure abuse as a child. Many of us have.
I am also so sorry history is repeating itself.
I know how you must feel as an older brother because when hearing about something like this. It's natural to feel protective and angry.
Please be careful but do not let this go.
Technically your wife was a witness to domestic violence and when she informed you things get more complicated. You have responsibility too. Is she willing to be a witness of these facts? Are you willing to follow through?
You probably had no one on the outside to help you when you lived under your father’s roof but you may be able to help your brother.
You know the facts better than we do but this is serious.
Here are some things to think about,
Someone else pointed out that your brother could have died.
After reading what I have I am in agreement.
A grown man punched a child!!?
That alone could have killed him! Not to mention the fall down the stairs!
No matter what this is abuse and should be reported.
One last thing, if you let this go something much worse could happen. And you have to decide what you can and cannot live with and I was wondering how you would have felt now if your brother had been seriously injured with the knowledge and history you have up to this point?
I hope I don’t come across paranoid. I am just very concerned.
P.S. Excuse my language but to Hell with what your good mother wishes.
I know you love her but something is wrong when a mother allows her children to be abused.
She will be upset but that is much better than what could happen.
Even If your brother isn't physically damaged he is being psycologicly and mentally damaged.
Ranchette
CALL THE POLICE.
Abusive bastards like your father DO NOT have spontaneous remission of these symptoms. They only get worse.
If you don't get the authorities in on this and your father breaks your little brother's neck throwing him down the stairs so he winds up like Christopher Reeves how will you feel?
Please do it NOW!
Francois
Dear Ash,
I come from the same background - seen, experienced the shit kicked out of me & the ones around me - including my every pet I've ever owned beaten repeatedly, raped, gutted in front of me.....of course, it was a lesson to me - and I learned.
This is not about you at the moment.....this is about your brother surviving. Secondly, it's about your mother and you.
But your brother was the one thrown down the stairs. Do something that protects him without endangering others. It's probably possible if you think about it. You're a smart man - we've seen that.
Help your brother now.
Take care.
waiting
Hi ranch,
I am mulling things over while my wife is being accused of apostasy on the phone with her mother....I HATE JW's.
If my brother has physical signs of abuse, we will photograph it, have him make a short statement and sign the photo, and date it. My wife will also do so. Then, we will inform my mother that my little brother is pressing charges, and then I will get the ball rolling. My wife knows a lot of lawyers, and may be able to get some good advice on how we can stick him for the child support.
I am concerned too, trust me, I've been threatened with death, quite seriously, many times. I've even countered him with knives and chairs being thrown. I swore that one day I would kill him, (long ago, not now, don't worry guys).
I hate that motherf**ker, and wish only badness on his soul. He is a hollow shale of a human, and his heart cannot exist. He moves solely on his fractured beliefs, which structure is declining. I will screw him this time, he will feel justice this time, because now he is screwing with the adult ashi, and adult ashi is no longer afraid. Only angry.
I've had many years to plan my revenge, takeover, rescue, whatever you call it.
I'm beginning it tonight.
ashi
Ashi,
Everyone I understand why you are saying to call the police, but that may not be in the best interest of his brother, or his mother. People who are career abusers are not happy about someone from the outside interfering, and may react more violently than they did before.
Though in theory it seems like a good idea, but anyone who counsels an abuse victim, knows this is not the only course of action. And often times leads to further attacks that are more violent. As long as you do not ignore it, and have a plan in place, I wish you the best of luck.
Ashi you have the right ideaKeep your head on and don't lose it.
wendy
When I leave, you will know I have been here
Ashi, I realize you are going to do whatever it takes to help your brother. Please talk to him and reassure him that you will help and that you are on his side. It's not uncommon for young people in his situation to runaway-never to be heard from again. Take care and {{hugs}} to you all.
seven
Ashi, this is what I was talking about before on another thread. That if you hit your dad you'd go to jail, but you have to have tons of proof and go through hell if you are a child and get hit repeatedly. The system is so wrong.
I'm glad you are planning to help your brother. Any way you could get custody if your dad doesn't stop? Or if nothing can be done to stop him? I know it would hurt your mom, but if she can't stop him or help her own son, something else needs to happen. I wish like hell someone had helped me and my sister. It's too late for her now.
Please let us know what happens....please....
April
"Love never dies." Voivodul Vlad Draculea (from Bram Stoker's Dracula-1992)
He knows I'm behind him. He always has a place to go to, right here. This year we took in my wife's brother when, holy shit, HE WAS THROWN DOWN THE STAIRS!!!! IS THIS A F**KING TREND?!?!?!
My wife sadly lamented tonite, "why can't our parents just be kind?"
And don't get my mom wrong...she's tackled my father before to get him not to hurt me, she's done her share of ass-kicking, but I may have to step in now. I've done it before, and I'll do it again.
Abusers can f**king run and jump. I f**king swear I'll stick them to their crimes.
ashi
