I think for the most part, we are quite reasonable here. At least there is a strong presence of reason when some tend to get out of hand.
There is evidence that those in positions of authority at the top of this organization are aware of harmful policies and errors in doctrine. Some of these policies are serious, costing people lives and their well-being, which makes knowingly perpetuating such policies evil.
Most of their doctrines are fantasy, which makes them relatively harmless, even if they are wrong. However, the weight one must put to such 'hopes' often causes unwise decisions to be made. The teachings of the religion create attitudes and life-styles that are counter-productive to the greater good of a community since they are so self-centered.
Over-all, I agree that your average Witness is a nice and decent person. I am skeptical as to the genuiness of that 'niceness', especially to non-witnesses, since they are conditioned to believe "worldly people" are objects to be "witnessed" to, and not fit for association outside of that. While they may be pleasant to such ones, their belief system teaches these ones will be "destroyed" if they don't join them.
Witnesses are generally nice around me, unless they realize they cannot "help" me. Once they feel you could be a "threat" to their spirituality, any love quickly turns to anger and hate and they often try to remove themselves from your presence.
I can only describe life as a Witness as "artificial". We pretended alot, and most of us knew exactly what we were doing when we covered for the organization. We hid many things from Bible students to make ourselves look better than we were. When we had to shun people we felt uncomfortable about it.
There is a certain responsibility each one of us has to accept for our past and present actions. Somethings can be excused because of ignorance or we believed we were doing something in the name of God. Other actions just went against common decency and harmed people.
Some people just REFUSED to reason and to think. They condemned the world to destruction for not listening to them, while at the same time they refused to listen to anyone. That kind of arrogance and hypocrisy makes them guilty as long as they submit to that system.
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