yo JP you know if you need any "character witnesses" for that JC just let us know.............. we will all show up and have a party outside the KH lol.............. i will personally tell the elders that i thought "poorly" of her because when i came over to your house she kept touching you inappropriately......... and you told her to stop but she wouldnt. NO MEANS NO MAN............ lol.
or how about letting her go and confess to them anything she wants.......... then when they try to make it an issue and force you to meet with them.... say she must be getting you confused with someone else because you didnt do anything until your wedding night and she had to show you how it was done............ then make that "CLICK" look where you just put 2+2 together....... lol
naturally then of course you can be stumbled by it all............ and thus meeting attendance will go to zero and remain there lol.............. oh HOW could jehovah allow someone to pioneer who would do such a thing to me................. lol
seriously tho, i wont DA because that is following their directions and acknowledging that they have power over you enough to make you dance to their tune. FK that, i refuse to submit to anything they dictate..................
all in all tho........... best of luck with the whole situation and i hope those elders fk everything up so that she sees the way the Holy Spirit so called directs those janitors and window washers to come to the proper decision.............. based upon asking dirty questions lol. maybe that will help her eyes to be opened........... we can only hope.