Larsinger
When I read your verbose post it sounds quite arrogant and confused. You say that if you are of the elect, you are chosen, I presume by God. So a loving God choses who he wants to be in the elite..oops elect, gives them understanding and then gives them more but the others just won't understand because God hasn't allowed them to be. What loving parent would give more to one child and then condemn the other for not having what they gave to the other. It doesn't make sense to me!
Interesting comment, but this misrepresents what was stated. The Bible says that he who has much will be given more, but he who has nothing, even that will be taken away. So if you want to compare this to a parent and children, note that the situation is already uneven. Note that the children have already displayed their choices.
You present this as if these children are all innocent and not knowledgeable and that God chooses some over the others. Not so. Imagine these are thus adult children, some who have decided to pursue a course of faith and and belief, and thus have "more" and some who have bucked against reality and the Bible and chosen to doubt and thus have "nothing." So God responds to those individual choices by giving those with faith even more to base their faith on. But for those who have chosen to be "goats" and doubt, he throws stumbling blocks in their way and many other things so that they are blinded to the truth.
So in the end, the elect are standing in a bright light, but those rejected are in total darkness.
Thus, as indicated in the Bible, while all start off as being invited into the kingdom and potential grapes, some are harvested and become fine wine and some become the "grapes of wrath" and are cast out! Some are sheep and some are goats. Some are wheat and some are tares. Some are fine fish and some are worthless fish. Some are wise virgins and some foolish, etc.
JUDGMENT DAY will be a special event. Here, ALL come back to life, including the wicked. This means ALL wll know and understand everything about God and his purpose. This means the wicked will see what the righteous are given and what they are missing out on before their final death. Those coming back on Judgment Day do not die in ignorance, but in "torment" for what they lost.