Let's really talk about sex now- Advice please???

by KateWild 11 years ago 86 Replies latest 11 years ago members adult

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  FlyingHighNow 11 years ago

  KateWild, I just sent you a PM.

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  happy@last 11 years ago

  Only sleep with someone who truly respects you, you'll only regret it otherwise.

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  KateWild 11 years ago

  Now, dating is a complicated thing. If you want to have multiple partners, I would suggest either be in an open relationship, or just not be in a relationship...-ILT

  Yeah like WMF said, mind games and is casual ever really casual, just for one and not the other at times. I don't agree with multiple partners or open realtionships. Flipper's experience was nice and wholesome though, Kate xx

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  KateWild 11 years ago

  The more challenged they are, the longer they will stick around. The less challenged they are, the more quickly they get bored and run on to the next conquest.- FHN

  Yep the old mind games again, can't be bothered with all that atm. Kate xx

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  KateWild 11 years ago

  FHN,

  Thanks for the PM and the experience, I enjoyed it. You made some good points. My view of casual sex is................it's not that casual really is it??

  Kate xx

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  DJS 11 years ago

  Only sleep with someone who truly respects you or you will regret it? WTF is this, the 19th Century? Geesshh, people, that is an antiquated thought in most of th western world.

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  KateWild 11 years ago

  antiquated thought in most of th western world.- DJS

  In my view I would say respect is good. Thanks happy. I don't want a greedy partner that doesn't know how to give. A woman might as well get a toy if she doesn't get respect. Respect is fine, pulling out the chair, opening a door, I want chivalry too. Why not DJS?

  Kate xx

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  bigmac 11 years ago

  from my experience in recent years--try a few dating sites. i was on plenty of fish---its a free one. most men on these sites are married players--some are upfront about it. its all very much a "man chases the woman" environment: so --if you want to be dined and wined a lot---go for it.

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  DJS 11 years ago

  I agree with your connotation and use of the word. I do not believe that was the intent of the word 'respect' used in the earlier post. I am a gentleman, consummately. I walk on the curb side, open doors, pull out chairs, first down the escalator, last up it, and so on. You won't know if someone is considerate and generous in bed until after you have been in bed. Respectfully being a generous and giving lover is different than "I will call you in the morning," "we are now in love" "committed" "can I bring my u-haul on the next date" "we are now monogamous with one another" blah blah balh. NONE of that has a wit to do with sex between consenting adults.

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  KateWild 11 years ago

  -try a few dating sites.-Bigmac

  Good idea, when I am ready I may have a go. Kate xx

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