Let's really talk about sex now- Advice please???

by KateWild 86 Replies latest members adult

  • minimus
    minimus

    Go for it

  • scary21
    scary21

    I have to agree with freeflying. Everyone has to figure out what works for them. I always asked myself....Could this be the one ? If the answer was yes, I went for it. If the answer was I'm not sure ,or no... I don't. It worked well for me most of the time.( because I tend to jump into bed to quick) To thy own self be true ! I don't judge. I just know for me, love and sex go together like milk and cookies.....lol I can wait until I get some milk in the house before I eat the cookies. Still some would say I have been a loose woman. I have only been with one man now for over 25 years. That's how I like it.

    I am a firm believer in masterbation if you are single or you and your partner are away from each other for a period of time. It's a good thing !

    Sherry

  • wannabefree
    wannabefree

    I respect you Kate.

  • KateWild
    KateWild

    sd-7,

    Good point about going from one invisible set of bars to another. But I think many can have fun with others and take care of their needs in a no strings environment, do you disagree???

    Is there no such thing as no strings, is there always emotions too??? What do you think?

    Kate xx

  • KateWild
    KateWild

    Sex with no real depth may seem exciting at the moment, but it's a flame that will die out soon if there is not substance...but, then again, some may be ok with this..each must find what works for them.-FFF

    Really good good point, yes it just ends up mechanical, at that point either party should end it IMO. Because the other one will get hurt. We all want sunbstance, but sex without substance can be fun if people know they are both not interested in substance. The thing is it can change over time, like with Mr Bentley. Yeah ralationships always seem to be one sided, even the no strings ones don't they.

    I suppose it's okay to go with the flow for a time, but being clear if things change about future desires and long term goals is vital in my view.

    Thanks FFF

  • KateWild
    KateWild

    Being adored for your personality is very powerful, as powerful as respect, both are important.- FHN

    That is wise, you have a very nice point. There are many on this board who like my personality, one or two that don't, many are happily married who show me platonic friendship. Nice wise advice. Great sfuff

    Sam xx

  • KateWild
    KateWild

    i guess I am saying.... Go have some safe fun x- Snare

    Thank you, but I think I will be staying celibate for the forseeable future. But I agree with your points about it being normal. I know when I'll be ready to have fun.

    Kate xx

  • Lied2NoMore
    Lied2NoMore

    i have wondered many times....if god didn't want people to have sex, why did he make us so horny???

    I mean all the nerve endings we have in our genitals, erotic zones, billions of sperm cells that get sent to produce more humans....staggering to think he wants us to contain all that and not use it!

  • KateWild
    KateWild

    God just wants us to enjoy and be sensible at the same time xx

  • caliber
    caliber

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQjOT7PTzK4

    Wait for the one that brings out natural trust and pure laughter you had as a little girl ..

    in "one magic moment "you will see & know that they adore you !

    .... when you have butterflies whenever you see a person yet you can be totally yourself around them

    .... be so comfortable

    .....You adore being in their company.....

    You trust them completely

    utter adoration

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