Thought #1:
JanH said,
Surely the main problem is that there is an organization that makes basically nice people do atrocities. But I cannot agree that this abstains them from responsibility for their own actions. We are all answering for what we do and did, no matter what context we are working in.
I totally agree with this. When I was younger, I did not feel this way. I was raised a JW and honestly felt people were helplessly sucked into a big trap and I just felt sorry for them. I did not hold them responsible for their shunning, etc. Now, of course, I realize each person is responsible for his or her choices. I believe that every JW has had a moment where they did something that they KNEW was wrong (like shunning an old friend), but made a choice to push that thought out of their mind in order to continue being a good JW. But I also hold the Org responsible because they use immoral and unethical methods to convince people to do these thingsThey trick people ... Am I making any sense here?
Thought #2:
JanH,
If I understand you correctly, you are saying that the use of these terms (cult, mind-control, brainwashing) hurts us because it weakens our argument to active JWs. Do I understand you correctly?
If so, I tend to agree with this. Telling a JW they are in a cult is about the stupidest thing a person could say if they are trying to get them out of the org, or even if they just wish to remain on speaking terms with them!
But I also understand you to say that these words dont just hurt our arguments with active JWs, but that they are actually incorrectly used words and we should not use them at all, even when speaking amongst ourselves.
IF I were convinced these words were WRONG and indeed loaded language, I would have to agree with youbut Im not there yet.
What words would be more correct, in your opinion?
I have used the term, dangerous control group. but that is for me just a way to say cult without pissing people off as much. Isnt that a euphemism?
Surely the main problem is that there is an organization that makes basically nice people do atrocities.
What is the word for organizations like this?
-LisaBObeesa