I think the problem is that people are revealed by their words and actions. If we assume that these descriptions of total depravity in people are true, we are left with a God who showed incredible patience, love and forbearance in order for some to be saved, although his desire is for all to be saved.
People state they only want good outcomes, but a very large number of people are willing to suffer endlessly in order to avoid God. What does this tell us about people? If we accept every premise about the nature of man's inability to live with God, much less love him, we are obviously left with a universe where suffering is understandably far more common than happiness.
What does this tell us about the being who created the universe and everything in it? It tells us that while we were all sinners and deserving only of death and eternal separation from God, He so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Halcon is right. It is an amazing opportunity to even have the option to choose.