NG,
I can't find the post where you said what would have been the incentive to quit smoking if you had been reinstated without quitting first, without the discipline of being DF (sorry to paraphrase)....
The incentive should always be love, acceptance and assistance of fellow Christians.
We're talking smoking here, an addiction, not murder.
Do you really think you've done something as evil as murder? Or better yet, pedophilia?
You're out, and hurting, meanwhile the peds are still in.
What's wrong with this picture?
Rosemarie
Not to be harsh, I do feel for you a great deal. I was DF for smoking, and it doesn't feel good; at one point in time, I would have done anything to get back (except quit smoking, obviously...lol and now I realize why I didn't....) While I believe one should "never say never", I don't see how, at this point in time, knowing what I know now, in no small part due to Simon's board and the people here, I could ever go back.