I did not contradict myself, however, I should have explained what I meant better.
It is 100% up to God to decide THE TIME FRAME that He allows people to choose, NOT the decision itself. That is what I was trying to say.
You asked me what was a reasonable TIME FRAME, and I said that the TIME FRAME that God allows people is 100% up to Him and Him alone.
I stand by all of my statements that you quoted from my earlier posts.
For tonight, I will be brief:
Let us look once more at the full context of the Revelation verses about this certain woman named "Jezebel":
Revelation 2:18-23: "And to the angel of the church in Thyatira write, 'These things says the Son of God, who has eyes like a flame of fire, and His feet like fine brass: "I know your works, love, service, faith, and your patience; and as for your works, the last are more than the first. Nevertheless I have a few things against you, because you allow that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and seduce My servants to commit sexual immorality and eat things sacrificed to idols. And I gave her time to repent of her sexual immorality, and she did not repent. Indeed I will cast her into a sickbed, and those who commit adultery with her into great tribulation, unless they repent of their deeds. I will kill her children with death, and all the churches shall know that I am He who searches the minds and hearts. And I will give to each one of you according to your works.
Jesus is obviously speaking about a woman who was living right then -- who was alive and was inside that church, whom the church was allowing to remain in good standing, and who was teaching and seducing Christians to sin in that church.
Notice that Jesus said that this woman "calls [not "called"] herself a prophetess" (present-tense), which obviously shows that she was living at the time Jesus spoke those words.
Jesus then says that He gave her TIME to repent, but SHE REFUSED to repent.
Jesus was leading her to repent, but she resisted Him! Just like the Jews resisted The Holy Spirit at Acts 7:51-53, and just like Paul said people resist the leading of The Spirit in Romans Chapter 2:
Acts 7:51-53: "You stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears! You always resist the Holy Spirit; as your fathers did, so do you. Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who foretold the coming of the Just One, of whom you now have become the betrayers and murderers, who have received the law by the direction of angels and have not kept it."
Romans 2: 4-5: Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance? But in accordance with your hardness and your impenitent heart you are treasuring up for yourself wrath in the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God,
About your latest question:
So what catagory are we in when the so-called "enlightenment" occurs?
According to the Scriptures, there are at least four (4) stages ("categories") that people can be in:
(1) Natural Man (born in sin, lost, unsaved, on his way to Hell, cannot even understand the Bible)
(2) Spirit-Enlightened Man (been enlightened by The Holy Spirit, so that he can understand the Bible enough to make his decision to accept or reject Christ)
(3) Born Again Man (accepted Christ's free gift and can never fall away to Hell)
(4) Willful Sinner Against Christ (committed the unforgivable sin by willfully rejecting Christ's free gift after having been enlightened, and is doomed to Hell)