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  Couple questions....like if JW's not the right way then what is?

  by world in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  new member here so don't attack :d here is a couple questions i have been contemplating lately.. .

  if jw isn't the right religion, then which one is?

  or is it basically believe in god, the bible and you'll be fine?.

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  Scully

  The best belief system will teach you how to think, rather than what to think.
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  Why JW marriage is a huge problem for the organization.

  by kneehighmiah in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the difficulty of finding a marriage mate is well known for sisters.

  but i would say it's hard for brothers also.

  i was talking to a jw last night.

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  Perhaps your JW "friend" should take a trip to the Philippines or Japan and meet some Sisters™ there. I understand the women are petite, attractive, and really dig Submissiveness™. /sarcasm

  PS Your friend is an asshole and I wouldn't wish him on anyone, not even a dog.
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  Want to email a bunch of local JW's something about TTATT anonymously but don't know their email address?

  by EndofMysteries in

  1. social
  2. humour

  post a cl add looking to contract some window washers and house cleaners, 98% of the 200+ respondents will be your local jw's.

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  We all know from personal experience as JWs that attempts to "educate" active JWs is likely fruitless in 99.9% of cases. The WTS admonishes JWs to pay no heed to unsolicited Apostate™ material, to just toss it out or delete it. They also advocate the idea that unsolicited Apostate™ material is a form of Persecution™, validation that their beliefs are The Truth™.

  Why anyone would want to feed those delusions and further entrench someone in the JW belief system is beyond me.
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  AAWA activists burst into a Kingdom Hall in Kent!

  by raymond frantz in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  aawa activists burst into a kingdom hall in kent.

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  I'm of the opinion that if you are going to stir up a hornets' nest, you have to expect you'll get stung.

  These tactics almost always fail with JWs because they feed the persecution complex that JWs have had trained into them, and it ends up reinforcing their delusion that they have The Truth™.
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  Mommy says no Christmas

  by Anony Mous in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  daughter is 3 now, that's a little less than i've been on this forum.

  you can find my life story in earlier posts.

  enough to say that i have a generous amount of visitation with her.. i picked her up and was talking about the lights some of her neighbors had.

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  It's really hard for a 3 year old to be in the middle when parenting conflicts like this arise. Be prepared for repercussions such as attempts at limiting visitation or finding yourself DFd and then having your daughter told "no daddy".

  I don't want to rain on your parade, but it can be very confusing for your daughter. Obedience to her mom and her mom's belief are very often co-mingled with love for her mom, and she may feel that by observing Christmas with you that she is going to make her mom (and Jehovah) sad, because that's how we were trained to teach our children about Christmas and birthdays when we were JWs.

  I've mentioned the following podcast a couple of times before, it's regarding raising children in a mixed (religious and secular) family. The guest on the show is Dale McGowan who's written a book called Parenting Beyond Belief, which I think is a must-read for anyone who has left the JWs but has a spouse or ex-spouse who remains in the JWs and wants to co-parent effectively. He also runs a website and has written books dedicated to raising children so that they know how to think rather than what to think.

  http://www.thethinkingatheist.com/podcast/secular-parenting-with-dale-mcgowan

  http://parentingbeyondbelief.com/
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  My dog just died.

  by panhandlegirl in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i just buried my beloved poddle, little brother.

  he died suddenly.

  i know to most people that is not an important event.

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  So sorry to hear about your beloved pet's passing. I would be heartbroken if any of my pets died.
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  Bill Cosby for Governing Body in 2015!!!

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  he should've kept his pudding-pop in his pants!

  i nominate bill cosby for gb.

  he is charismatic, funny, intelligent and knows how to capture an audience.

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  It would never happen - they already have their token black guy.
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  Bill Cosby - too much smoke for no fire?

  by Simon in

  1. social
  2. current

  it seems like the list of people who are accusing him of rape and sexual assault is growing every day.

  i'm skeptical of single accusations but the number of people and the similar stories seem overwhelming now.. it's not a conviction but to the court of public opinion ... guilty?.

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  It's very likely that each woman was intimidated into silence - the old "do you really think they're going to believe you? or Dr Huxtable?" and I'm sure his lawyer can be very intimidating if an alleged victim even *thought* about pressing charges. Maybe the victims believed their experiences were anomalies and not part of a predatory pattern of behaviour.

  How many women who were sexually abused by Elders™ or Ministerial Servants™ questioned their experiences? It's easy to believe that you are the only person this happened to, that nobody is going to believe you if you say anything or try to stop it. Or worse, blame you somehow for "seducing" a beloved man who is Appointed By Holy Spirit™ - who's going believe you making such allegations against *him*?? A victim is made to feel shame and embarrassment, they are intimidated into silence, and they feel utterly ALONE. Alone, that is, until they realize that they were not alone. That validation, in itself, is liberating. It is reassurance that you aren't crazy, you didn't imagine it, you are NOT lying about what happened, and that it isn't your fault - you were in the wrong place at the wrong time, in the path of a predator in the act of predation.

  I'm glad these women are coming forward. They deserve justice, even if it means taking down a once beloved public figure. If he is guilty of the allegations, he doesn't deserve to be a beloved public figure. He deserves public ridicule and jail time if he is guilty. Zero tolerance.
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  Meeting for not paying assembly fees???!!!!

  by Kool Jo in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey folks......has anyone else heard of, or experienced this before?.

  i visited by parents over the weekend and accompanied them to their assembly....same rubbish spoken about since ive been born....obey the gb, donate your last penny, no education and be a pushover.. anyways, our assembly hall has lush vegetation and scenery, so i was more focused on that....i started dozing off after lunch, so got up and went walking, saw some older folks from the congregation i grew up with.. upon the conclusion of the assembly, wed normally leave out right after the prayer ends so as to avoid the traffic.

  however, for this assembly he told me that hes gonna be a few minutes with the elders and branch representatives...so a few minutes turned into an hour..

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  What really bugs me about this story is that the Assembly Hall™ construction was originally funded by donations from the Congregations™ to purchase the land, and the WTS likely offered a mortgage to the collective users of the Assembly Hall™. Once the loan was repaid, the WTS charges user fees/rent to the Congregations™. The building itself has probably been paid for multiple times, with the WTS soaking up the profits on the backs of JWs who can't fathom the thought that they are being bilked out of millions of dollars.

  They bought it. They paid for it. The WTS collects the cash, and guess who is going to get the money from the sale of the property? It ain't going back to the folks who paid for it with their own money and labour, that's for sure.
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  Does The State Have The Right To Quarantine Someone Because They Might Have Ebola?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  no doubt you have heard about the nurse that thumbed her nose to the state and went out of the house in spite of being ordered to stay at home.

  what is your opinion on this?.

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  Ebola is contagious when the infected person exhibits symptoms, which develop within 8-21 days of contracting the illness. It is not airborne. You have to physically come in contact with the blood or body fluids of an infected, symptomatic person to be at risk of contracting Ebola.