FourMs

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  What a coincidence

  by FourMs in

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  i seem to have encountered many strange coincidences in my life.

  for some reason it mostly has had to do with my past boyfriends as well as my husband.

  here are a few examples that i can think of off the top of my head.. when i was 15, some friends at school wanted to hook me up with one of their friends.

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  Would I be df’d if…?

  by FourMs in

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  well, let me fill you in on a few things first.

  i have stopped all jw activity since a few months and as mentioned in other posts, i am being stalked by every elder and car group looking to stretch their service time.

  when they come i just ignore them by not answering the door (or the phone when they call).. today they came (for the 3rd time in 3 days) and when i went outside a few hours later my neighbor was out front of his house and after some small talk, he informed me that i had some dressed up people come to my door.

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  Elders on my tail

  by FourMs in

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  as mentioned before, i have not been to a mtg since january.

  i have not spoken to anyone in the congregation about my decisions as of late and i dont plan on informing anyone either.

  i have had the elders at my door at least once a week for the last few months and every car group out in service that needs to fill in some time are stocking me here too.

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  What things did you do through a mtg to distract yourself?

  by FourMs in

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  when we were kids, my best friend and i would do each others hair.

  wed have our barretts and elastics and the whole bit.

  then when we got a little older we used to do our nails nail polish and all .

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  Is this normal?

  by FourMs in

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  after i came to terms with my decision to leave the org, i suddenly didnt want to anything to do with god.

  its been several months and i still dont want to hear people talk about whether there is a god or not.

  or when people say that they thank god for this and that.

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  Any suggestions?

  by FourMs in

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  i have a predicament.

  i was wondering how to go about telling neighbors that i am now going to celebrate the holidays.

  this time last year (when we were still new in our subdivision) it seemed to be one birthday after another here in my neighborhood.

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  Why does grandma have a picture of Charles Russel hanging in her room?

  by FourMs in

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  does anyone else know of someone who has a hanging picture of russel out where everyone else can see it?

  my grandma is the most "spiritual" person i know.

  isn't that "idol worship"?

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  Getting nervous

  by FourMs in

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  i feel like i need to spill my feelings.

  after lurking on the site, i realize my story is like many here.

  the reason i am feeling nervous is that i have not broken the news to my parents yet about my inactivity as well as my standing as to what i think about this whole thing.

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