I wasn't going to come back here, but there is still hope for some.
There is always hope for all :)
While I disagree about putting ALL the blame on men, I can kind of see you believers' points on starving children in Africa. If you want to say it "pains" God to see humans mismanaging things that badly, I think it just serves to comfort your beliefs in Him standing by doing nothing, but I can see the other side of that too.
If you can see and understand someone else's pov (without having to agree with it), then that is a big thing. It shows respect... from whomever is trying to understand. So...
So stick with the children Indonesian tsunami victims. Trying to blame their parents for not having the expertise to save them isn't much of an excuse. Saying they or their parents don't know Joeashua Methusalah and Jah isn't much of an excuse. The fact remains that innocent children died in a natural disaster in which any existing omnipotent omnibenevolent "God" would have intervened.
No, I don't blame their parents or anyone in a true disaster. (sometimes we know better than to live somewhere, but decide that the risk is worth living there... for whatever reason: job, view, temperature, etc. So those ones are kind of on us, as well.) I also am not certain as to the reason behind this... only that it wasn't meant to be like this. I have some little understanding that I posted earlier, but that you won't be able to accept, and I understand that too.
However, I used to not understanding how God could allow suffering (that we cause), as well as many other things. But I trusted God, through trusting His Son. And I was granted understanding. So, for me, it is the same with physical disasters. I may not understand fully yet everything surrounding this and its consequences, but I trust... and I may yet recieve understanding on that.
I do know that these bodies of ours (the physical) do grow old, die, become diseased, get broken. The physical world is tumultous and moving and shifting, etc. Without any of these things, physical life might not be possible. But the spiritual does not have to worry about these things.
Peace,
Tammy