"The only way someone could criticise those of us who choose JW light is if they claim they definitely know the entire truth and that everyone else is wrong"- that is so blatantly false and ignorant I hardly know what to say. One does not need to know the 'truth' of something to see it is clearly dangerous, false and quite arrogant to say such a thing. Could one compare joining a gang (M13 or equivalent) and say, "you just don't know the truth that we live and why we must act as we do" ? (crimes, beatings, sexual abuses, theft, drugs, prostitution, blood in blood out, etc...you don't understand 'our' truth)
Anony Mous is correct, announce and denounce the actions of the wt publically. If you, in your heart of hearts and ok, let's add reading the perverted wt Bible, find that the blood issue for example is ungodly and unbiblical, say so, go to the hospital when some poor jw is about to lose their child because the wt has said they must sacrifice their child upon the wt altar. Do you do that? no? a bit uncomfortable I suppose and you would lose much in the process. What happened to Jewish people who went against the rules & regulations? they most often were 'unclean' until morning, no shunning, no marking, simply unclean which could be rectified. (possibly bathing, prayer, etc...)
What those of us who are aggravated with the like of your ilk is because you lack integrity and only look to cover your own ass at all costs, even at the expense of someone's actual life.
I find it almost amusing that you use the word 'arrogant' for others. Why? because my jw is the only jw anybody in our family/friends have ever known and since he became a jw that is the word used most to describe his newfound 'religion'. People who loved him so much and such respect now say "I thought he was smarter than that" because they don't understand how cults work. They don't understand that he can look up both sides of any issue except the cult he is in, the jw's.
As a side note I will direct you to the search bar (or go to youtube) and use it to find jw elders/ms who actually did what I and others here have suggested, use your next 'talk' to enlighten the cong to the lies, false prophecies, abuses and so forth. There are a few who come to mind, yes, they were about 20 years ago but they were men of integrity. Men who actually cared about truth, and even some who loved God enough to be honest even if they lost much. Men of true faith. Men who could have actual long conversations about doctrine, policies, etc.... men (or women) you no longer find in the jw org.